my girl is hurting

Former Member

I am in a long-distance relatonship and dont get to see my gf that much. Lately when we have been sleeping together she gets off once or twice and then is done for the night or even the weekend. She is small and I am large and she tells me that it really hurts her. We dont use lube, but I am very generous and get her ready. What can I do to make sure we can go at it for days??

**helen**

Hey there,
Great to see you posting on this issue - it's really good to see someone looking out for their girlfriend in this situation.

TheSite has an article on painful sex that you might find useful. Where are you based?

Former Member

I'm in Boston. From the article, it seems like the only thing I should do is use h20-based lube, right? Any positions or tricks to prevent this?

Former Member

I find a silicone-based lube works really well. I rarely have sex without it and get really sore if I do.

Former Member

I just wanted to add that I think this is worse for long distance relationships than usual as when I had a ldr I'd just be getting used to the sex and then we'd be ages without seeing each other and it would be more difficult when we did have sex again.

Former Member

Randomgirl wrote: »

I just wanted to add that I think this is worse for long distance relationships than usual as when I had a ldr I'd just be getting used to the sex and then we'd be ages without seeing each other and it would be more difficult when we did have sex again.

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