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Giving him head
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Ok. so heres the deal. I love my bf to pieces. He means everything to me. We are not sexually active as such. But he have talked about oral etc. I feel ready to take that step.. but i dont really know how to go about it. Im comfortable around him and feel I can talk to him about it. I know he wants it. His not-so-subtle hints really turn me on. Any advice on how to approach the act. Should I be asking him anything first?
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SUCK MY DICK!
Good luck
Seriously though, massage the head and shaft with your tongue and lips, suck a lot...that's about it really.
Hmmmm......oh Kym......I need a favour....
Really? Only if you return the favour.....
YES!
First of all, don't start by getting him in the habit that he should get 9 blowjobs for every 1 he gives you, it doesn't matter how much you like giving them and it is not about keeping score, but i personally feel like it is best when the favour i returned on a mostly equal level.
as for technique? don't forget to use to use your hands too, otherwise your jaw will get awefully sore, awefully fast. but like with any exercise, practice build strength and endurance.
of course, all of this is so personal, but eventually, maybe you two could get comfortable enough to watch each other masterbate, and this will give you ideas for how to please the other in the oral skills.
i thing blow jobs are generally easier to deliver than cuntilingus. i don't know for sure as i have never tried the later, but clits are smaller and more complicated than cocks..... nevertheless, practice, practice, practice.
much of it is just reading the other person's responses and going from there. good luck
Yep I'd guess this is pretty good advice, but I reckon you should tease him more since it's the first time you are gonna do it. Perhaps kiss down his body, stroke your fingers across his body just under his boxer elastic, undress him, kiss some more then wander your tongue and lips on him before leading into the act (all without touching there first). Then add hands. Also play with his balls while you are doing it? (I'm not sure if men like that though).
Alternatively get him unexpected like when he is playing a game or something, you may have to suck him until he becomes hard if he's not expecting it.
I'm sure he won't have any complaints whatever way you go about it.
Um .. no? Oral sex is greeeeeat!