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Why does it always end badly for me?
BillieTheBot
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Yeah anyway as some people may know in a previous post of mine i mentioned ive been getting to know this girl outta my psychology class, well yesterday i spent all day with her n she suggested if i slept round hers
(win?)
no..not win, when we were in bed about to..you know..
she said "I dont think we should do anything when i still love my ex"
so i was like fair enough.
Now this morning when i got home from hers i asked her on msn what shes going to do (make her mind up about if shes defo keeping her ex, an ex.. or gettin back together with him.)..she said she doesnt know but she doesnt wanna hurt me..
Now i wanna know is why invite a guy round ur house when your still in love with your ex and let him sleep with you..especially from what ive heard they argue all the time n rarely get along, now in my eyes love isnt worth that if you argue 24.7
Reallly getting me down
(win?)
no..not win, when we were in bed about to..you know..
she said "I dont think we should do anything when i still love my ex"
so i was like fair enough.
Now this morning when i got home from hers i asked her on msn what shes going to do (make her mind up about if shes defo keeping her ex, an ex.. or gettin back together with him.)..she said she doesnt know but she doesnt wanna hurt me..
Now i wanna know is why invite a guy round ur house when your still in love with your ex and let him sleep with you..especially from what ive heard they argue all the time n rarely get along, now in my eyes love isnt worth that if you argue 24.7
Reallly getting me down
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Situations a little different, her n her ex split up 2 months ago but they keep arguing constantly in texts..its like why dont you move on already
what do you mean by "think of the future?" exactly mate.
Yeah think im just gonna play it safe n just tell her ill be there n that.
Also dont let yourself get into anymore intimate situations like that until you know whats going on for definate
and im not just saying that because i want her, its because they dont trust each other.
If you keep nice and tidy you will never get a piece of the cake. If she said "I don't think we should do anything when I still love my ex." I'd be, fair enough. have a nice evening and went home. As long as she knows she can have you with a snap of her fingers, she won't want you. Only when she realizes you don't put up with that crap she will have to make a choice and only then you have a chance.
I think the best option is just to leave it alone for now and not bring it up, try to be civil and friendly. Sometimes love isnt the right way, common sense is needed in this situation on her behalf i believe.
Then again, depends if you want a relationship or just want some sex.
Idk i dont wanna play 2nd fiddle either.