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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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my boyfriend is on tagged.com and has on his profile just here for friends only also states he is in a relationship. he has a few women added to his profile and one keeps sending him tags which i feel uncomfy with. latest is she is calling him sexy and sending him sexy kisses. am i being paranoid about this? he says its just a friends site and even told ME to join but so far all i can see is its a pickup joint as i get men hitting on me all the time.

your views would be greatly appreciated folks xx

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    as far as i know about tagged is its another social network? (all be it, not a popular one) like facebook or myspace, i get alot of e-mails from it saying, "So and So has tagged you!" Try searching it in wiki see if it tells you more info about it.

    I dont think its a date site though, although i could be wrong!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I dont know anything about the site but if you feel uncomfortable with him going on there and talking to girls you should tell him.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Tagged is a blatant pick up site from what i've seen (loads of 'playas') ughh not my sort of dating site!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Tangolady, on your "Is he wrong or am I right?" topic, I thought it was concluded that your boyfriend has been using these sites maliciously.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    thanks again for all your replies guys. moserrat, yes it should have been concluded then but i love him and want to believe all is innocent. today he lied to me about something totally unrelated to dating sites and i am hurting. then i see VERY flirtatious tags to him from a female on there and his replies were much the same.

    why can't i just let go? i must be so weak and spineless.....just too needy i guess....

    i am miserable and sorry for telling u all this, how can i stop myself from loving him? how how how......
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    So what's the problem?

    You love him, he likes flirting with other people and this doesn't stop you from loving him. Would you stop loving him if he started seeing other peoplel?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If you want to stay together and yet the b/f keeps doing this, it strikes me that he is using emotional blackmail on you and using you at the same time.
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