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Is he wrong or am I right?
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hi guyes, could do with some advice here....
been seeing my boyfriend for 18 months now, we do not live together as yet but plan to one day. but yesterday i found him on a friend making site called Tagged.com. he has four women added as his friends and only yesterday added one of them the same age as him to his friends list. am i being too over the top in feeling uncomfortable with this? or do i let it go because it is only a friend making site? i have to say, all his 4 friends are women, two that live near him and none of them are men!
i know he has been waiting for me for a long time but due to other things going on in my life, i have not been able to be with him as much as we would both have liked. so then i think, well maybe he is entitled to have a bit of company as he lives alone, yet i can't help feeling extrememly uncomfy with this.......
any advice would be most welcomed guys
thanks
xx
been seeing my boyfriend for 18 months now, we do not live together as yet but plan to one day. but yesterday i found him on a friend making site called Tagged.com. he has four women added as his friends and only yesterday added one of them the same age as him to his friends list. am i being too over the top in feeling uncomfortable with this? or do i let it go because it is only a friend making site? i have to say, all his 4 friends are women, two that live near him and none of them are men!
i know he has been waiting for me for a long time but due to other things going on in my life, i have not been able to be with him as much as we would both have liked. so then i think, well maybe he is entitled to have a bit of company as he lives alone, yet i can't help feeling extrememly uncomfy with this.......
any advice would be most welcomed guys
thanks
xx
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I think you can either leave it how it is, wait until he actually does something that warrants you breaking up, or have it out with him, or pretend you never saw it and carry on as normal
&& seriously, what is a relationship without any trust?
my advice:
grow a ppair and discuss this face to face like adults.
stop all this sneaking around cuz the fucked up one in this situation actually looks like you.
soo be a strong women and stand up for what you think he's doing wrong. let hiim know you're not feeling that and ask him how would he feel if he was in your shoes!
good luck a million!
i have just txt him saying i dont think i will ever be enough for him but i love him and he has not got back to me. he probs thinks i am in a mood or something lol mind you, he was on that site when i sent him the text, probs too busy to get back to stupid me....
note to self....WAKE UP AND SMELL THE COFFEE!:banghead: :banghead:
it is so over and i love him to bits but i can't carry on like this anymore, my head is done in and the last shard of trust i had for him has gone completely....
now to start dealing with a broken heart...........lol
then he tells me what a mad busy day he has at work yet he can find the time to do all this shit? i am so gutted and feel sick.....can't stop crying:(:(
i need to end it without him knowing what i know....and i shall be doing it by text!
I wouldnt have thought it a big deal for him to have women friends on there.
What makes you think there is more to it than that?
no matter now, i have finished with him and he got nasty so i think i have made the right decision, hurts like mad tho but it's the right thing to do i guess....
I think you made the right decision
Just like "heads I win, tails you lose".