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I Cant Orgasam or Get off!! Help!
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I have been with my boyfriend for only about 4 months but i have dated many other guys before. we started having sex about 2 months ago and this is his first time ever having sex. He always gets off but i NEVER can. its very frustrating for me and him as well because he always says that its embarrassing for him that he cant please his girlfriend! What do i do? I know everyone says to practice on yourself by master bating and stuff but i don't really have interest in doing that myself and i feel like that wont help me! Every time he fingers me or we are having sex/oral i always get this sharp feeling in my belly and i feel like i have to pee but i feel like a cant con troll myself and just wanna grab something and squeeze it! Can anyone help or have any advice thanks!
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Sounds like the beginnings of an orgasm to me. Dont stop it from happening, just relax, grab something if you need to, whatever feels natural and let it happen.
Also, the more you experiment by yourself the more you'll get to know what feels good for you, which you can then show him.
Do you try different positions? To start with, a lot of girls find it easier to come when they're on top and can control the pace and angle.
apparently 97% of women are capable of having a squirting orgasm... if you are one of these ppl please tell me what you did to achieve such brilliance.... :P
Someone needs to find the Gspot