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cant stop thinking - emopost
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Went to this thing and spent ages with awesomegirl, nothing hapened but i didnt really have the balls to make a move. I cant work out whether:
a) i am seeing things that arent there (dont think this is the case)
b) she is giving me hints
c) she is just like this with everyone
At first I didnt really know her, we went to the same club, then we met randomly at a social and got on like a fucking house on fire - i am sure you know what i mean when you *click*. We have talked ever since on MSN / webcam / phone EVERY DAY and then we met up at this thing we went to. We spent tonnes of time together, but then she might just be being super friendly. I was going to wait for the right time to try and make a move like if we had had maybe a drink each and going back to camp-site at night trying to give her a cuddle and if it felt right a kiss
(I am v slow mover, i just lack the courage most guys my age seem to have).
Anyway unfortunately we didnt really get into that situation, a couple of cool situations like when she was getting changed with me in the room . . I was a bit embarressed though and looked away.
ANYWAY. So now I'm back from this thing, she's coming to visit me a week on monday, and I think if you put infatuation on 1-10, I started at a 1, then after we got to know each other perhaps a 5, and now I think an 8. I can't stop thinking about her and its really nice to feel this way about someone - as I've gone on dates in the past but thought something about my past relationships had broken me so i would never feel the chemistry again.
Now I just don't know whether it's two-way, although from a common sense point of view it would seem that way I don't know. So now I'm happy but also worried and also a bit overwhelmed with emotion. Not like, ridiculous emotion, but its a very big difference from the complete absence of emotion. Sitting in bed wide awake thinking about them etc
Just talking to my friend who says he could tell we were spending more time together etc and says if he notices then she must notice too and so the fact she's coming down in a week might indicate she wants to see where it goes... but who knows. I just really don't want her to come down and i do something silly and then she gets flustered and says she wants to be friends and then i come on here crying about how girls are evil and we should be gay (or something).
sorry for emopost
a) i am seeing things that arent there (dont think this is the case)
b) she is giving me hints
c) she is just like this with everyone
At first I didnt really know her, we went to the same club, then we met randomly at a social and got on like a fucking house on fire - i am sure you know what i mean when you *click*. We have talked ever since on MSN / webcam / phone EVERY DAY and then we met up at this thing we went to. We spent tonnes of time together, but then she might just be being super friendly. I was going to wait for the right time to try and make a move like if we had had maybe a drink each and going back to camp-site at night trying to give her a cuddle and if it felt right a kiss
(I am v slow mover, i just lack the courage most guys my age seem to have).Anyway unfortunately we didnt really get into that situation, a couple of cool situations like when she was getting changed with me in the room . . I was a bit embarressed though and looked away.
ANYWAY. So now I'm back from this thing, she's coming to visit me a week on monday, and I think if you put infatuation on 1-10, I started at a 1, then after we got to know each other perhaps a 5, and now I think an 8. I can't stop thinking about her and its really nice to feel this way about someone - as I've gone on dates in the past but thought something about my past relationships had broken me so i would never feel the chemistry again.
Now I just don't know whether it's two-way, although from a common sense point of view it would seem that way I don't know. So now I'm happy but also worried and also a bit overwhelmed with emotion. Not like, ridiculous emotion, but its a very big difference from the complete absence of emotion. Sitting in bed wide awake thinking about them etc
Just talking to my friend who says he could tell we were spending more time together etc and says if he notices then she must notice too and so the fact she's coming down in a week might indicate she wants to see where it goes... but who knows. I just really don't want her to come down and i do something silly and then she gets flustered and says she wants to be friends and then i come on here crying about how girls are evil and we should be gay (or something)
.sorry for emopost
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You never can really tell in these situations, theres a good chance she likes you, or is just being friendly, just play it cool and see what happens!
C-A xxx
If she gets naked in the same room as you, she either likes you or thinks
I've been trying to ascertain that skillset for years.....:flirt: :yeees:
Chill your boots matey, things will happen on their own accord, you might want to make 'some form' of move towards her....even if it's holding her hand when no one else is around....
That sort of says...."Hello, i like you but I shhhhyyyy".
Or go with booze option and both get hammered and then tell her....ideally without :sour: :yuck: on her
Some sort of action is required from you otherwise she could slowly wander into the 'friends Zone' and you'll be sorry!:crazyeyes
Good luck:)
Good luck! :thumb:
Good luck!
Although you've probably already been laid by now :thumb: