i just found out my mums a...

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im shocked a feel so sick inside.

I didnt know this was going on till yesterday my mum was on msn on this computer and was hiding her conversations etc. She forgot to close her msn and the person said "ive got a picture for you"

I decided to look at the saved conversations and omg, it sounds like out of a porn movie... i get told off if i swear and she's doing all this?

As far as i know they have meet up and done 'it' allready, she keeps saying she'll go to his country/or pay him to get a flight here. And she complains we have no money.

Also that fact that he keeps saying oh yeah ive had loads of sun/fun/sex this weekend and she will still want to go see him?

i have no idea what to say to her, in fact i dont think i want to say anything which makes me all quiet, dunno what to do!

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Pay him to get a flight here? Sounds like a scam to me!

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Well, she's an adult and is free to do what she wants imo, as long as she's not cheating or hurting anyone.

Ok, as far as the money thing goes, fair enough, and i can see how finding out that your mum has been saying all this stuff is a bit shocking but its none of your business really, she's entitiled to her own personal life. I'd just let it go if i were you

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your profile says your 21, so you seem a little old to finally be discovering your mum is a sexaul being like everyone else, so i get the impression there may be more to it? is she not single?

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Shes a grown woman, entitled to live her life and do what she likes. I know its hard, as it is your mum, but really you should just not think too much into it. Its probably just a little bit of fun and one of those spur of the moment things.

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I think the missing word in the title is 'Woman'.

Guess what?! She had sex with your dad to get pregnant to have you!

Don't say anything to her about it - would you like it if she dug up conversations you had with a girl and started telling you you were a filthy animal because you talked dirty to someone?

Leave it out and just make sure hes not one of those messed up internet weirdos who will try to eat her when she comes round.

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shock - just found out mums a person too

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Isnt this what the internet was made for?


Come on your mother is a grown women let her live her life.

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joshmeister wrote: »

i have no idea what to say to her, in fact i dont think i want to say anything which makes me all quiet, dunno what to do!

Why do you need to say anything? She's a woman and, as we know, women love a bit of cock. Yes, even your mother! She can't get all her relief from strumming the old banjo so let her get out and enjoy herself.

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Teagan wrote: »

She can't get all her relief from strumming the old banjo so let her get out and enjoy herself.

Sorry but LMAO

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I think it's far more 'shocking' that you think it's perfectly ok to go through your mother's saved PRIVATE conversations on her MSN account.

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i dont know if its just me but it doesnt seem like hes so shocked about the fact his mum is having sex. more the fact that this guy shes 'with' lives in another country and shes offering to pay for him to come over to england (when clearly the op has never heard of him) and also that this guy has been saying that hes been out at the weekend sleeping with other women and his mum is still ready to pay for him to come over. i think people are being a little harsh! would have been better if he had given more details though i guess.

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Why is it ok for you to read through her private messages? Yes, she could have done more to close it and that, but just because it was there, doesnt mean you had to read through it. Shes a normal woman living her life, perhaps she just wants a bit of excitement and i doubt she would be to happy to know you read through her messages. Think how you would feel.

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this way i once found my dad cheating on my mom

seems that the bastard was having an internet affair and i found out about it from looking by accident at emails he sent her.

it was quite a while ago...

ho internet internet...such an efficient tool in surveillance