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[girls] Frequency of orgasms ?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Hello everyone,

Since this is my first post on this board I'm going to present myself : I'm a 21 yo guy, dropped from school now working in the computer/internet field in a big city. I have an obsession with sports car and I put gummy bears in the bottom of my beer bottles before drinkin' :O)

Here's my question for the girls here : What, would you say, is the average ratio orgasm/sex.

I mean, do you have an orgasm each time you have sex, once each four times, multiple each time, etc.

Since I really want to get replies, I'll tell you the whole story when I have some input to discuss with you folks ;O)

Is that cool?

Thx! Cya!

DropD

[This message has been edited by DropD (edited 18-01-2001).]

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by DropD:
    Hello everyone,

    Since this is my first post on this board I'm going to present myself : I'm a 21 yo guy, dropped from school now working in the computer/internet field in a big city. I have an obsession with sports car and I put gummy bears in the bottom of my beer bottles before drinkin' :O)

    Here's my question for the girls here : What, would you say, is the average ratio orgasm/sex.

    I mean, do you have an orgasm each time you have sex, once each four times, multiple each time, etc.

    Since I really want to get replies, I'll tell you the whole story when I have some input to discuss with you folks ;O)

    Is that cool?

    Thx! Cya!

    DropD

    Hi DropD,

    Normally, personally, I wouldn't answer a question like this until I'd got to know you a bit better, but dammit, I'm intrigued about the story <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">.

    For me it's once per time, I've never been privileged to have a multiple.

    Now come on, what's the story.

    j9

    PS which "big city" do you work in?

    I had a life once, but I stopped feeding it so one day it just walked away.

    MTS ^5 <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;

    [This message has been edited by j9 (edited 18-01-2001).]
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Personally i dont think it depends on me, i think it depends on the guy, gotta be with someone that makes you horny havent you,

    id say on average hmmmm ermmm about 2/3 times, but i dont really have short sex i do all nighters but if its just a quickie i dont always have one. But if theres time to burn why not make the most of it, lol.

    Anyway yeah i wanna know the story too, *gets on her knees to beg* please tell us i hate secrets they drive me mad, lol.

    In ur own time mate.

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hmmm well since you introduced yourself and all....

    I used to be about 2/3 times too. But now with my new bf who I'm soooo comfortable with I'm 9/10 forsure. Giddy up.
    And i've only had multiples a few times.

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Completely depends who it is.
    One ex was like 3/4 some you get none and would be far happier with a nice cuppa tea and a biccy!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

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  • Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    ive not actually had an orgasm during intercourse. not that ive had much practice of that, id say less than 20 times and we were both just getting to know what to do right to make it good when bang, we broke up! lol

    but ive had 2, sometimes 3 orgasms in one go sorta thing, well first one with fingers and then 2 at once during oral not long after!

    If you don't know where you're going, you'll probably end up somewhere else.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    it really depends. i've had sex and not had one and then sometimes had like 6 practically all at once. i think the difference is doing it with someone you feel close and comfortable with.
    welcome to thesite!

    i'm not denying that women are stupid; God made us to match the men.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hi again!

    First thanks to you all for your replies <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    Now the story : I've been going out with this girl for about 3 months now. It is really a great relationship, we get along very well together and we have *incredible* sex.

    My previous GF used to have an orgasms 2 times of 3 (averaging).

    But my new love... well. It's never been less than 2 each time. Not quick ones in rapid succession, 2 good ones. It went as far as 5 (I was in the mood, and she was too!)

    I was the first suprised. I'm not doing anything special, and she says it's only with me that it does that to her. So both of us are like "wooa what's happenning! holy pajamas!".

    It's probably simply the fact that we are very comfortable with each other. Great sex!

    So with all this I was wondering, from 0.6 to 2-5 per session, I was wondering what the average was you know.

    Thanks again for all your replies!

    DropD

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hmmm, well i must be a freak then! Ive had sex with 5 guys, and the one im with at the moment, ive slept with hundreds of times (literally), but i can safely say ive NEVER had an orgasm through sex! A few of my freinds have said the same too. I dont know wether the guys arent doin it right or what, but i live in hope of reaching that orgasm! My boyfriend knows several ways of making me cum through 4play, but not sex! Never mind.
  • Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    very similar topic here now!
    http://www.thesite.org/ubb/Forum1/HTML/000523.html

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You vant average.You cant have statistics.It all depends on technique and the girl.logically you can average by asking all the girls but it doesnt mean anything.It can range tremendously couldnt it?
    What would mean more is averaging your girls.Orgasm isnt everything-its the passion but i suppose an orgasm is a bonus.
    You do know it is quite tricky for a girl to orgasm anyway?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Never had one through sex alone...but had 3 in one night once through foreplay.
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