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Chest hair?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Hey I just have a question, kinda for girls but guys can answer too. I am a 20 year old guy, some of my friends have asked me to go the pool this weekend. Anyways, I am kinda a little freaked out, because I have started getting chest hair this year. I know most guys my age don't really have chest hair, so yeah, it might be a little weird being around my friends, but I was mostly concerned about what girls think... So yeah, here are a couple of pics, girls, please give me your honest opinions, because well, I don't want to go to the pool and gross the girls out! Should I get rid of all of the hair, some of the hair, (if so, what should I get rid of) or is it sexier to just leave it? Thanks!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You're a man, men have chest hair, as will most of the men at the swimming pool, you're not some freak !! You look fine, you don't look like some monster or anything, it's natural.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yup you look absolutely fine. I wouldnt say thats it excessive at all.

    PS in the second pic you look like someone famous although i cant think who it is. A singer or an actor??
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What? I'm 20 in September and I have about 10 times more chest hair than that.

    Some girls like it, some girls don't, you look fine, don't worry about it :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i agree - there's nothing wrong with it, but you were nervous enough to post about it so if your really self conscious why not wax? girls love guys that will take the time to improve their appearance.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Porn pose in the second pic :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Before you think of tidying up your body hair maybe consider tidying up your house?

    Just a thought :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Amira wrote: »
    Before you think of tidying up your body hair maybe consider tidying up your house?

    Just a thought :p

    Get some light in there would be my idea. And maybe a few pictures on the walls. And a plant.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Oooh i know who it is! Frank Jr from Friends :)

    On the first subject, girls have different preferences so some will like it and some won't, just the same as everybody else has features about them that are desirable to some and not to others.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    your nipples look like eyes with the hairy ring around them. But I guess that's awe inspiring.


    they are staring at me... oh god.
    Evenstar wrote: »
    why not wax?

    don't you do that... not speaking form experience, but tbh the kind of girls I know (and yea, they are just the very usual kind) would rather run away screaming if someone admitted to wax his chest, instead of being in love with them.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well you're obviously not so self-conscious about it that you won't let anyone see it because the whole world has access to pictures of you without your top on now. I'm sure having a bare chest at a swimming pool isn't going to be much different.

    Men often have hair on their chest. It's normal and it doesn't make girls run away screaming. If you personally don't like it, get rid of it. Otherwise, leave it.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Don't consider waxing your chest, it looks stupid.

    There's nothing wrong with having hair on your chest, I've yet to meet anyone who thinks it's anything but normal!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It's pretty normal for a 20 year old man to have hair on their chest. Don't worry.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I giggled when I opened this thread. Hopefully the next one will be some 20 year old ladies with the same predicament.

    But seriously, you look absolutely fine, so don't worry about it ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well i didnt mean all of it maybe just the nippular bit
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Evenstar wrote: »
    well i didnt mean all of it maybe just the nippular bit

    well, that's 90% of it :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I had some female friends wax my chest once for a laugh.

    They laughed, I didn't, lol. I look back on it now as a bonding experience. A painful one though that left me with a rectangle shaped bare and red patch in the middle of my chest.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hairy chests are good :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Waxing is bad. Very bad. This is a clip of me having my 'bikini line' waxed live on air on my old radio show: http://uk.geocities.com/russburt@btinternet.com/wax.mp3
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Waxing is bad. Very bad. This is a clip of me having my 'bikini line' waxed live on air on my old radio show: http://uk.geocities.com/russburt@btinternet.com/wax.mp3

    Is that genuinely you?!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What, the guy screaming like a girl after having his side-pubes ripped out?

    Yes.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    wax or shave your nipple hair, personal preference i dont like it haha otherwise your fine.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    jus trim it up.....its what i do and im not a particularly hairy person....
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    StrubbleS wrote: »
    your nipples look like eyes with the hairy ring around them.

    LOL tbh I was thinking the same thing if you get rid of any make it the eyes :yum:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Waxing is bad. Very bad. This is a clip of me having my 'bikini line' waxed live on air on my old radio show: http://uk.geocities.com/russburt@btinternet.com/wax.mp3

    God what a girl! Lol it isn't that bad christ!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    God what a girl! Lol it isn't that bad christ!

    Yes it is. I have very thick and strong 'thigh pubes', the skin around there went purple and yellow for a few days after...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ok, so when you guys say about getting rid of the nipple hair, do you mean just the stuff around the nipple, or the stuff going across the chest towards the nipples, leaving just the "line" going up my chest?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    leave it, it looks fine.
    I think chest hair is nice.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think it looks fine - leave it :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    heh ok I went to the pool this weekend and didn't do anything to my chest, and everything went ok. My friends of course noticed and had to joke around about it a little at first, but everything was ok... a cute girl even hung around for a little bit.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Chest hair is hot. I know, because I have it! :D
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