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Dontcha just hate it??

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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When you've planned a great weekend together for you and your other half. Really romantic, do u get the idea???
And then they decide that they are spending the weekend out at a m8's house playing on their computers.
It really does my tree in....
What do you lot think I should do?? Sometimes it really annoys me when he knows I've planned stuff and He just says " It'll be better if we wait.."

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hmm, toughie.
    I think that any man who would rather spend the time at a mates house on a comouter rather than with his girlfriend really needs to sort out his priorities.
    In this situation you really need to talk to him and tell him how you feel about this.
    Maybe it is a friend he hasnt seen for a while and wont see for a long time. If this is the case then you may have to let this one slide. If it is a friend he sees all the time then u need to tell him how u feel.
    Hope this was some help


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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by BabyLisa:
    When you've planned a great weekend together for you and your other half. Really romantic, do u get the idea???
    And then they decide that they are spending the weekend out at a m8's house playing on their computers.
    It really does my tree in....
    What do you lot think I should do?? Sometimes it really annoys me when he knows I've planned stuff and He just says " It'll be better if we wait.."

    So what exactly constitutes a romantic punk weekend?

    I've not lost my mind it's inserted elsewhere - hence the limp.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    maybe u shud tell him dat it annoys u and tell him dat u fink he shud make more of an effort.
    The more sand that escapes through the hourglass of time, the clearer we should be able to see through it.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Drifter:
    maybe u shud tell him dat it annoys u and tell him dat u fink he shud make more of an effort.


    And dat u shud tipe properly bcos its real hrd 2 read lik dat.
    I've not lost my mind it's inserted elsewhere - hence the limp.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    lmfao @ turtle
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Turtle:
    And dat u shud tipe properly bcos its real hrd 2 read lik dat.

    Is it really hard to read? I think it is easier to type like that.

    (sorry for going off the topic)
    The more sand that escapes through the hourglass of time, the clearer we should be able to see through it.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Drifter:
    Is it really hard to read? I think it is easier to type like that.

    (sorry for going off the topic)


    I find it easier to type properly, but that's cos I'm used to it. Yeah, sometimes it can get annoying - not so much on the short posts, but long GFM-style posts that use web-hand (as oppsed to short hand), it can get a bit awkward. Would be appreciated, will not force you.
    I've not lost my mind it's inserted elsewhere - hence the limp.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Tell him how u feel, if he still does it after you've told him how pissed off it makes u feel then do u really think he's worth it? That is wot happened wit me & my ex, we'd plan sumthing then he'd go & do summat wit his mates who he sees everyday ne way. I told him how i felt but he didn't seem 2 care about my feelings so i ended it.
    Good Luck! XxX
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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    [This message has been edited by Daze (edited 14-01-2001).]
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    101 47 D423
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    lol turtle, oh dear im getting a rep... i find it impossible to use capitalisation in posts now, too much tiem in chat rooms and stuff! i dont shorten much stuff, i just tend to miss apostrophes and type coz instead of because and ppl and msg. and that kinda thing. sorry if it annoys anyone! i just find it easier to type like that. i dotn know how you find that easy drifter, it would take a hell of a lot of concentration for me to do that! but yeah, it is kinda hard to read... :-\

    i agree with whats been said about the post though. if its a mate he sees a lot, then you should really tell him how you feel when youve gone to all that trouble planning stuff, for him to turn round and say hes having a lads weekend in. if it happens regularly, you really need to talk to him about it, if he cant be bothered with the effort, then is it really worth spending all the time on him that you do?
    If you don't know where you're going, you'll probably end up somewhere else.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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    [This message has been edited by j9 (edited 14-01-2001).]
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    argh stop!! stop now!!!! please?
    If you don't know where you're going, you'll probably end up somewhere else.
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