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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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what do i need to know before my first time???

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It's not as good as you'd think. Be prepared. Be it what you both want. Use protection and lube. Be warmed up. Don't do it on their sister's bed.

    My first time, he didn't tell me what he was about to do and put a duvet over my face. Collapsed in agony after 2 minutes because he'd twisted his ankle. Then he told me how he'd lost his virginity. I'd post it here but I'd be flamed to hell, PM me if you like.

    Sorry if I sound bitter and unhelpful, he dumped me a few hours ago.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Remember that the gas is right, the clutch is left and the brake is in the middle! and if you are driving an automatic make sure to brake with your right(!) foot, even tho it's so alluring to break with the left, since he is just sitting there doing nothing!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    StrubbleS wrote: »
    Remember that the gas is right, the clutch is left and the brake is in the middle! and if you are driving an automatic make sure to brake with your right(!) foot, even tho it's so alluring to break with the left, since he is just sitting there doing nothing!

    LOL. Aces :D

    Take it slow. Relax. Communicate. Enjoy every sensation. Don't be afraid to ask/tell what you want.

    Do it again afterwards :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Eddish wrote: »
    Take it slow. Relax. Communicate. Enjoy every sensation. Don't be afraid to ask/tell what you want.

    :yes:

    It's good to make sure you're ready for sex, it's your choice and there's no rush. Sex with a new partner, whether it's your first time or not, is about finding out what you both like and feeling at ease with one another. Just make sure you feel comfortable and relaxed and pick a safe place where you're not going to be disturbed, and of course don't forget to think about contraception too :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Be ready for it to be awkward and don't worry if things don't work out as well as you imagined
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    your first time what?

    whatever it is, take it in stride
    keep a sense of humor
    maintain balance--it is what is and...
    it ain't what it ain't

    reverence and a smile
    get you through anyhing....

    even to the next time

    hotsam
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i'm told my message is too short

    give me a break!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It can really hurt so make sure you're with someone you feel comfortable to say so with. It really does make a difference. Also, make sure they know it's your first time.
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