What would you do?

Former Member

I have noticed for months now that when my partner kisses his brothers girlfriend hello or goodbye, they often kiss on the lips. Neither of them do it to other people and it's not just close to the mouth. It usually a little to the side like a really sly kiss or on several occasions, bang on the lips.

I want to approach him about it. Would you approach this situation or ignore it? If you did approach it, how would you do it?

I had a dream last night that they were having an affair. I keep thinking about it, and it is driving me beserk!

Advice please. :-)

Former Member

Are they close any other way? Flirt a bit or always sit together or things like that?

If this is the only close thing they do, then i dont think theres anything to worry about

Former Member

they might be just close. I doubt he's going to run off with his brothers girlfriend.

I don't know how the customs are in UK, but I do give some girls a kiss on the lips when greeting/saying goodbye. It's not unusual, but you tend to be rather close to that person then.

If you really think that's detrimental to your relationship you could talk to it about his brother (since he is the other person with a partner that kisses someone who's not him on the lips) and see what he says.

Other than that, I can't really say anything except "suck it up", something you usually do not want to hear (judging from your other problem with him watching porn).