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Psychosexual Therapy - Anyone had it?
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I'm going to a sex therapist tomorrow to sort out why on earth it feels like im being repeatedly stabbed in my lady bits when i have sex. I'm pretty sure its a psychological problem as its always been this way, lost my virginity a good 5 years ago - 3 of which were spent single and avoiding men completely for various reasons - but now i am in a new relationship i have to sort it out... i feel like im missing out on one of the fundamental good experiences of life, something thats meant to feel good is the worst pain i've ever felt, frustrates, angers and upsets me...
Just wondering if anyones had a similar experience and/or if anyones been to sex therapy? whats it like? did it help? tell me your stories!
Just wondering if anyones had a similar experience and/or if anyones been to sex therapy? whats it like? did it help? tell me your stories!
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If it's not that, then I'm afraid I can't help.
If it's just the feeling of a penis stabbing you, I think that's how it supposed to be, if it's more like knife stabbing, then I don't know what's wrong with you.
I'm pretty sure it's all in my head, I've read a lot about it... Apparently if you have a psychological phobia of sex it can cause an involuntary spasm of the ladyparts making them tense up resulting in physical pain... Just got to get it sorted and would like to know if anyone's been through a similar thing and been 'cured' so to speak... hehe.
Anyway, epic fail for me, I got lost and missed my appointment today. Rescheduled for another time but very annoyed at myself... grr!
I can't really give anymore 'advice' since I know little about the human psyche (unfortunately) and never dealt with a psychologist, so maybe you just need to wait for your appointment.