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Threatened miscarriage
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I can't believe this is happening. Please if anyone has any advice?
I had a miscarriage with pain & bleeding in december at 7 weeks. Now expecting again, and was 7 weeks on monday. Just as I thought I'd gotten past the DAY it happened last time, BAM, bleeding & pain. Last pregnancy i was scanned & all looked ok, but after a few days the heartbeat was gone. This morning I was scanned, there was the heartbeat & all, (again)& now I'm praying for this bleeding to stop or else I'm goin back down the same road as december. I've got to keep my doc posted, but there's basically nothing they can do to stop a miscarriage. I'm so terrified. Why is this happening?
I had a miscarriage with pain & bleeding in december at 7 weeks. Now expecting again, and was 7 weeks on monday. Just as I thought I'd gotten past the DAY it happened last time, BAM, bleeding & pain. Last pregnancy i was scanned & all looked ok, but after a few days the heartbeat was gone. This morning I was scanned, there was the heartbeat & all, (again)& now I'm praying for this bleeding to stop or else I'm goin back down the same road as december. I've got to keep my doc posted, but there's basically nothing they can do to stop a miscarriage. I'm so terrified. Why is this happening?
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Your question is a difficult one to answer. Medically speaking, you would have to ask your Doctor, or perhaps speak to someone at NHS Direct about the science behind why and how a miscarriage happen. Their page on bleeding during pregnancy may be worth taking a look at? Have you had a conversation with your Doctor about this already?
It sound's like you are scared of experiencing the same pain, emotionally and physically again. This is totally understandable. It may sound daft and perhaps impossible for you right now, but trying to relax could be the best things for you at the moment? Have a relaxing bath or read a happy book?
Do you have anyone that you live with? Anyone that you can talk to when you are feeling anxious?
Please keep posting to let us know how you are getting on and don't forget to call your Doctor with updates.
Take care of yourself
(((((((((HUGS))))))))))
Just remember that whilst any bleeding in pregnancy must be checked out, its actually fairly common, and it doesnt necessarily mean you will miscarry.
I had a big bright red bleed when i was pregnant with Felix and I was beside myself thinking i was miscarrying again, but it was fine. A lot of people bleed in pregnancy. I really hope its nothing. You must be so worried but try to stay calm. Youve seen theheartbeat, and once youve seen the heartbeat, your risk of miscarriage drops quite dramatically
Hope it all goes well for you. It's natural to worry but you've had a scan and it was allnormal so remember that and take it easy x
That's great news. Try to stay positive and continue to speak to your Doctor, family, friends and The Site about how you are feeling.
Take care -
It's closed in the sense that it hasn't dilated, it doesn't mean things like blood can't get through. What the doctor is looking for is to see if the hole is bigger than it should be; an 'open' cervical os would mean that a miscarriage is inevitable.
hope you get some good pictures at the scan!
Aww yes def good sign let us know .how far will u be fri at scan ?
I had scans from 3week+6days 7week+1day and 9week+4days before my normal 12week scan!
Had alot probelms with my 2nd daughter and alot scans.
If you can when get 28week have a 3d scan its amazing wel worth the money i had my done at warrington 155 pound
I know nothing I say is going to make you feel better, but wishing you lots of strength
((hugs))
xx
I lost twins at 6wk cudnt do me scan heavy bleeding had do my hormone levels hcg over a week +second time i was 9 weeks i knew sumit wasnt right
I had to lie to get scan!+i was right it died at 6wk again same as last time. If you need chat p.m me .
And big hugs +loves.
And id wait at least 5month let your body settle down +make sure you had at least 2 cycles.
Take care
My miscarriage was one of the most heartbreaking things i have ever been through. It must just be so traumatic to happen twice in a row
Stay positive and hopefully you'll feel strong enough to try again
We are all so sorry to hear of your miscarriage.
You have had some great messages of support from the users here. To answer your question of how to get over this is very difficult, as everyone heals and copes in different ways. It sound's like you have some great support around you with your husband and family - this is extremely positive, and they will undoubtedly play a big part in the healing process. You may also want to check out this advice page - it has a link to a support website along with some other bits of advice.
Take care of yourself and keep posting - big hugs