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Is it normal

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
When I give oral to this lad, he goes in a weird mood after he cums.

Is this normal for lads to do this?

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Dunno. Depends what you mean by 'weird'.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well, once he cums, he doesn't want me to carry on. We've tried but he can't get hard again, his erection goes. So a few mins after he cums, he wants to stop. He does masterbate alot, so if he'd had around 3 wanks during that day then maybe that's why.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yea what is he like?
    Its generally a normal thing for guys are after they cum to be kind of distant, not wanting to cuddle up or kiss and just want to fall asleep, eat, have a cigarette etc
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    kimmeh wrote: »
    Well, once he cums, he doesn't want me to carry on. We've tried but he can't get hard again, his erection goes. So a few mins after he cums, he wants to stop. He does masterbate alot, so if he'd had around 3 wanks during that day then maybe that's why.

    Us guys are not like girls. We can't carry on after orgasm. So, the fact he tries to 'carry on' for a few minutes afterwards is pretty impressive. Seriously, it actually hurts if you carry on after orgasm. We generally have to wait a while, although this varies from guy to guy.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Us guys are not like girls. We can't carry on after orgasm. So, the fact he tries to 'carry on' for a few minutes afterwards is pretty impressive. Seriously, it actually hurts if you carry on after orgasm. We generally have to wait a while, although this varies from guy to guy.

    Yup - this is about right. It becomes far too sensitive to carry on after blowing your load. Depending on horn-levels, it can be anything from a few minutes before I am ready to go again, to not being bothered at all.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yes, that's normal.

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Refractory_period_(sex)

    I have it pretty strong, so after sex I just want to roll over and have my peace, not even a naked jessica alba and scarlett johannson dancing on my bed could get me in mood for at least 15-20 minutes.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    StrubbleS wrote: »
    I have it pretty strong, so after sex I just want to roll over and have my peace, not even a naked jessica alba and scarlett johannson dancing on my bed could get me in mood for at least 15-20 minutes.

    for me it isn't a question of being in the mood, but whether i can actually get it up to perform at all. i would imagine that it varies in extremity from one guy to the next, though.
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