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Should i go for it????
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As you know i've been with my boyfriend for...1wk(wow)! But anyway, i really feel like its time we go it on so does he but the thing is my little cousin(15) is pregnant, and i know they used a condom, now 7months on shes gonna be stuck with a baby(I've got a fcuked up family)! So now i'm worried if i sleep with him him and get pregnant! I've done it before, so thats not a problem its just the risk of getting pregnant!I dont want a baby i'm only 16/17!
Do you lot think i should forget all this and just get on with it???
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Have you looked at the possibility of going on the pill? But for std protection, youl still need the condom.
j9
I had a life once, but I stopped feeding it so one day it just walked away.
MTS ^5
sorry.
MTS ^5
we seem to be following each other around spirit lol
j9
I had a life once, but I stopped feeding it so one day it just walked away.
MTS ^5
100% agree with J9 here, just like to add that you should talk with you bf first about what you would do if you did get pregnant. Granted you can't really decide until you're in that situation but it'll help if you figure out what you would do, and what your bf thinks.
The more sand that escapes through the hourglass of time, the clearer we should be able to see through it.
If you don't know where you're going, you'll probably end up somewhere else.
We have had a similar post to this, and I have to say I am all for the pill. Seriously consider using it because you get a level of protection that you dont get with condoms. If you want 99.9999999999% protection then use a condom as well, as others have said this will protect against STD's, but if you both get checked out by the doctors then this doesn't matter so much.
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That's fine if you can be 100% certain that both are going to be 100% faithful.
j9
One week? Are you sure you can trust him? Sex is about trust and communication.. not just shoving things everywhere.. he isn't pressuring you is he? Cos that is the WORST reason to go into something like this.
As for pregnancy.. perhaps think about a long term solution like the pill? you would have to take it every day at the same time for it to be effective (perhaps 8pm?).. or depo-provera.. I actually have an appointment at my sexual health clinic tonight about me going on the injections.. I've heard bad things though..
Anyway, be safe!
Luv,
FluffyPenguin
Ask them about Mirena, much better than Depo-provera from th research I've done
j9
I had a life once, but I stopped feeding it so one day it just walked away.
MTS ^5