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Should i go for it????

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

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As you know i've been with my boyfriend for...1wk(wow)! But anyway, i really feel like its time we go it on so does he but the thing is my little cousin(15) is pregnant, and i know they used a condom, now 7months on shes gonna be stuck with a baby(I've got a fcuked up family)! So now i'm worried if i sleep with him him and get pregnant! I've done it before, so thats not a problem its just the risk of getting pregnant!I dont want a baby i'm only 16/17!
Do you lot think i should forget all this and just get on with it???

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Grizzlybear:

    Hi <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;
    As you know i've been with my boyfriend for...1wk(wow)! But anyway, i really feel like its time we go it on so does he but the thing is my little cousin(15) is pregnant, and i know they used a condom, now 7months on shes gonna be stuck with a baby(I've got a fcuked up family)! So now i'm worried if i sleep with him him and get pregnant! I've done it before, so thats not a problem its just the risk of getting pregnant!I dont want a baby i'm only 16/17!
    Do you lot think i should forget all this and just get on with it???

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    Have you looked at the possibility of going on the pill? But for std protection, youl still need the condom.

    j9



    I had a life once, but I stopped feeding it so one day it just walked away.

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If ur gonna do it like j9 said look at the possibility of oging on tjhe pill to boost ur chances of not gettin preggers, god im just repeating j9 here,

    sorry.

    MTS ^5
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Spirit II:
    If ur gonna do it like j9 said look at the possibility of oging on tjhe pill to boost ur chances of not gettin preggers, god im just repeating j9 here,

    sorry.


    we seem to be following each other around spirit lol

    j9



    I had a life once, but I stopped feeding it so one day it just walked away.

    MTS ^5 ;)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by j9:
    Have you looked at the possibility of going on the pill? But for std protection, youl still need the condom.

    j9


    100% agree with J9 here, just like to add that you should talk with you bf first about what you would do if you did get pregnant. Granted you can't really decide until you're in that situation but it'll help if you figure out what you would do, and what your bf thinks.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i agree with every1 else. The pill is sposed 2 b realy gud, but u shud stil use a condom 2



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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    don't forget that it takes a couple of months for the pill to become fully effective.
  • Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    thats not true CR. the most common ones, you take on the first day of your period and its effective from then.

    If you don't know where you're going, you'll probably end up somewhere else.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Umm, I know it sounds a bit old fashioned but are you sure you want to sleep with him after just one week? I know it is your descision, and if you are making the right one then fine. I just dont want you to regret it because you didnt wait. If you do wait longer then you are less likely to make mistakes with contraception because you dont feel rushed or pressured that's all.
    We have had a similar post to this, and I have to say I am all for the pill. Seriously consider using it because you get a level of protection that you dont get with condoms. If you want 99.9999999999% protection then use a condom as well, as others have said this will protect against STD's, but if you both get checked out by the doctors then this doesn't matter so much.



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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Whowhere:
    as others have said this will protect against STD's, but if you both get checked out by the doctors then this doesn't matter so much.


    That's fine if you can be 100% certain that both are going to be 100% faithful.

    j9

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hi,

    One week? Are you sure you can trust him? Sex is about trust and communication.. not just shoving things everywhere.. he isn't pressuring you is he? Cos that is the WORST reason to go into something like this.

    As for pregnancy.. perhaps think about a long term solution like the pill? you would have to take it every day at the same time for it to be effective (perhaps 8pm?).. or depo-provera.. I actually have an appointment at my sexual health clinic tonight about me going on the injections.. I've heard bad things though..

    Anyway, be safe!

    Luv,
    FluffyPenguin
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by helenfluffypenguin:
    Hi,

    As for pregnancy.. perhaps think about a long term solution like the pill? you would have to take it every day at the same time for it to be effective (perhaps 8pm?).. or depo-provera.. I actually have an appointment at my sexual health clinic tonight about me going on the injections.. I've heard bad things though..

    Anyway, be safe!

    Luv,
    FluffyPenguin

    Ask them about Mirena, much better than Depo-provera from th research I've done

    j9




    I had a life once, but I stopped feeding it so one day it just walked away.

    MTS ^5 ;)
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