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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
why can't guys get it up, on their first time like when their virgins

I hear this a lot

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Fear? Worry? Concern? Embarrassment?

    Maybe they just don't fancy you? ;):) j/k
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    there probably just shy or worried being there first time hehe :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Click to see more wrote: »
    Fear? Worry? Concern? Embarrassment?

    Maybe they just don't fancy you? ;):) j/k

    lol what?? nah that never happened with my guy
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Click to see more wrote: »
    Fear? Worry? Concern? Embarrassment?
    Yep, performance anxiety is quite a well known thing. And obviously, there aren't many times when you're more anxious than the first time you have sex. I've heard of blokes having this same problem with a new partner as well, particularly if they've only had one girlfriend for a long time. Obviously, you get comfortable with one person, so the idea of having to do it all over again with a completely new person can be an issue for some people.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Something to do with sodomised electrons I hear. You should check it out.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    when i lost it wich was with the lass am with now i had it up streight away i had no probs...she was more nervous then me and she's had more expericance ahahah lol still it was pretty fucking good not as bad as i thought it would be
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    never not got it up. Actually it even gets up when totally inappropriate. Wish Mr. Strubbs would more often just hang about.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    StrubbleS wrote: »
    never not got it up. Actually it even gets up when totally inappropriate. Wish Mr. Strubbs would more often just hang about.

    bighead :p
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