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Im think im bad at sex? Please give advice.

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
Hi, im 18 and i am quiet upset at the fact that i cant ride my bf as good as he rides me. I get on top using most of my body to bounce up and down on his penis, and also try other positions. I get tired abit faster then he does. ( Its not my weight ). He then mentioned to me one time when i was on top of him, "Would you like me to get on top now?"

Im not sure if it was the fact he saw me getting tired or the fact that i was bad at having sex.:confused: He is 95% of the time on top, when ever we have sex. I get discourraged and just let him ride me. I prefer it when he's on top, but id like to show him that i can give just as much pleasure when im on top. I fail at that, at the moment. :( Im better at oral sex, but that is as far as i get with sex. I would love to show him how i can fuck his penis till he comes.

Please anyone give me advice on what i can do about me riding my partner!!! :nervous:

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You could eat more enegetic foods a few hours before sex.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Keep experimenting. Sooner or later, you're going to find positions which both of you absolutely love. Oh, and keep practising.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Rather than bouncing have you tried rocking? You could also lean forward with your hands near his head and use this to take most of your body weight - you will probably find this less tiring.

    Only other tip is to relax and find a rythym - it can do wonders ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm always a bit paranoid about this myself, I find myself getting really achey in my legs and I smoke a bit too much to let me have the necessary lung capacity to go for too long. Also my rhythm is a bit...shit.

    But just persevere and experiment, you'll get there in the end. :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I would suggest watching Porn to see how people do it. Instead of bouncing I find when a girl rocks back and forth on top is more pleasureable. If she can do it right her clit will rub on the males stomach bring her to a climax within minutes.

    Also when your on top and your going to orgasm get your boyfriend to grab you while your on top and let him fuck you from the bottom.






    Basically just keep practising but check some porn out also.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    LostAussie wrote: »
    I would suggest watching Porn to see how people do it. Instead of bouncing I find when a girl rocks back and forth on top is more pleasureable. If she can do it right her clit will rub on the males stomach bring her to a climax within minutes.

    Also when your on top and your going to orgasm get your boyfriend to grab you while your on top and let him fuck you from the bottom.






    Basically just keep practising but check some porn out also.

    Yep this advice spot on i love on top me and my partner always come together within minutes relax doggy style great to
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