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how to get your fella to have sex again within a matter of hours...

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
cos yanno....when you have a free day (i.e this valentines day) sex is gonna be on the cards people. ideally i would like it more than once in a day, thing is...i dont think this have ever happened. partly because we dont have time but is it possible for a bloke to get it up again in a matter of hours? or how long are we talkin here? i suggested viagra but hes a bit daunted by it. we are only in our early twenties! you hear of some people going at it 5 times a night!!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Don't put pressure on him and it may happen more than once but don't try and force it just because it's valentines day.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    like lea said...just go with the flow...just have a nice time and enjoy spending time with him...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If you want to make recovery time quicker lots of protein is good, so bacon and eggs for breakfast is a good start!

    Rather than going for quantity it might be an idea to have him take a couple of Panadol about 30 minutes before sex then he will go for AGES without coming - I assume about 2 hours, I tried this with Tramadol which was maybe not a good idea since after about an hour i started talking complete bollocks about The Gummi Bears while still having sex with her - so Panadol is maybe 'safer' if you dont want moments like that.

    So yeah.. feed him and keep him horny.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    cos yanno....when you have a free day (i.e this valentines day) sex is gonna be on the cards people. ideally i would like it more than once in a day, thing is...i dont think this have ever happened. partly because we dont have time but is it possible for a bloke to get it up again in a matter of hours? or how long are we talkin here? i suggested viagra but hes a bit daunted by it. we are only in our early twenties! you hear of some people going at it 5 times a night!!

    I am not bragging or anything but to be honest with you I have experience in going 14 times in one day. Mind you after the 6th time it became like a chore and I did not enjoy it at all.

    It was with my ex girlfriend and we were home for the day madly in love as you do and it was just one of them moods we both happened to be in. We would both be on the computer (1 laptop each) next minute BAM it's on. This went on through out the day 14 times. I think the shortest in between rest time was 40 minutes. So it is possible depends on the guy though.

    Good luck but don't forget there a more important things then sex in a relationship. Like cooking bacon and eggs :nervous:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    katchika wrote: »
    It totally is possible for a guy to get it up again in a matter of hours...and even minutes for young guys.

    my boyfriend is 22, he can get it up and come again straight after having sex which i think is a bit weird. we can have sex, he will come, then straight after he will start to have a wank and come for a second time a few minuits later, he normally stops after that but sometimes he goes in for a third wank and this is all one after the other and he comes every time :confused:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If you want to make recovery time quicker lots of protein is good, so bacon and eggs for breakfast is a good start!

    Rather than going for quantity it might be an idea to have him take a couple of Panadol about 30 minutes before sex then he will go for AGES without coming - I assume about 2 hours, I tried this with Tramadol which was maybe not a good idea since after about an hour i started talking complete bollocks about The Gummi Bears while still having sex with her - so Panadol is maybe 'safer' if you dont want moments like that.

    So yeah.. feed him and keep him horny.
    so wots panadol and where can u get it any1 and duz it work
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    randyrutz wrote: »
    so wots panadol and where can u get it any1 and duz it work

    Panadol iz a pinkilla nd u cn buy @ chemist az itz over da counta nd itz a painkilla so it shud wurk liek tramadol
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    nyc1 cheers
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Panadol iz a pinkilla nd u cn buy @ chemist az itz over da counta nd itz a painkilla so it shud wurk liek tramadol


    haha wonderful how that seemed to fly over the head there...

    anyway, i am curious about this; taking painkillers maintains sexual libido, or what? how does that work? anyone else got experience with that?

    i think every guy is different. i personally need a change of scene. a shower, a drink in the kitchen, whatever, then i can be pretty much ready to go again.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Taking painkillers numbs and desensetises the penis big time so baiscly you can slap it and a guy wont feel it.

    It does not interrupt sensations so as long as it stays sexytime its hard to lose a boner due to sensitivity, the main side effect is drowsiness afterwards but most guys get drowsy after sex anyway :D

    Its not huge fun for a guy to have sex with painkillers involved but it certainly adds that stud factor when youve been going for 2 hours instead of 2 minutes :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Two hours sounds like way too long for me. That would start to hurt.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    katchika wrote: »
    Two hours sounds like way too long for me. That would start to hurt.

    Take a break and have a game of Scrabble halfway though?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    When me+my currant BOYFRIEND first had sex it went on 3hour AMAZING usualy if he in that mood 20 minutes after we have he ready to go again im 24 and he is 27 week tommorow and the numbing cream Crap
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Its not huge fun for a guy to have sex with painkillers involved but it certainly adds that stud factor when youve been going for 2 hours instead of 2 minutes :p

    true, once i had tried something to make me last longer and it basically numbs the sensation down there so you dont feel a thing. great for the girl though.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Aj fan wrote: »
    When me+my currant b.f first had sex it went on 3hr AMAZING usualy if he in that mood 20min after we have he ready to go again im 24+he 27 week tommrow

    Please try writing in a more legible fashion! It's painful to try working out what on earth you're on about. Just take a couple of minutes to read back and then edit as appropriate.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    katchika wrote: »
    It totally is possible for a guy to get it up again in a matter of hours...and even minutes for young guys.

    if my bf has trouble i just start sucking his cock he most certainly gets hard try that 1 girlies
    :naughty:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    g_angel wrote: »
    Please try writing in a more legible fashion! It's painful to try working out what on earth you're on about. Just take a couple of minutes to read back and then edit as appropriate.

    Sorry as i have said before my internet on phone not laptop ive edited the one tiny mistake as was b.f meanin BOYFRIEND
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Aj fan wrote: »
    Sorry as i have said before my internet on phone not laptop ive edited the one tiny mistake as was b.f meanin BOYFRIEND

    Ah, no, that wasn't what I was referring to. You don't use punctuation, seemingly miss words out of sentences etc. It makes it difficult to ascertain what you're talking about. I've used forums on a phone, and it's perfectly possible to write properly.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If a bloke's up for it, (no puns intended, please) he can start having sex again within minutes of finishing the last time. Depends on what mood he's in and how much energy he's got.

    No wonder they say the way to a man's heart is through his stomach.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    g_angel wrote: »
    Ah, no, that wasn't what I was referring to. You don't use punctuation, seemingly miss words out of sentences etc. It makes it difficult to ascertain what you're talking about. I've used forums on a phone, and it's perfectly possible to write properly.

    Try harder in future if i take too long it disconnects me and then i have to come out of the site and log back on i have timed it and i have less 50 seconds to post a reply sorry about
    The confusion :yes:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I've always wondered this question because some guys like physically cant get their penis up again until they've recovered properly where as some guys can. And Apparently some others are just too lazy to go again.

    My boyfriend and I only get one chance a week to have sex so we usually have sex 4 times at the night (Sometimes 5) and 2 times in the morning. He has a really high sex drive and sometimes it's hard to keep up but I dunno I guess guys need motivation to have sex, if its pent up inside of them they wanna get it all out, the more thats pent up the more sex...

    Maybe if your a forward gal... give him 10 mins and kiss hug him etc. and then start talking dirty or do something to turn him on again... I wouldn't ever dare do that just in case they couldn't get a hard on and its the whole awkwardness of it all.. thankfully I've never had to deal with that.
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