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Shy girls
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Right i fancy this girl, see her most days and talk to her on msn txt etcc however i cant tell wether she wants to be friends or further. she isnt the type to make a move and im worried if i do she will run for the hills can anyone thing of more subtle ways of progressing a relationship? :chin: or somthing of aid thank's
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The other option would be to just ask her out, tell her you like her and would really like to get to know her better etc What have you got to lose?
Itl get easyer and easyer. When you talk to her in person you can tell if she likes you or not by her body language.
Give her a smile and see where you go from there.
Good luck. :thumb:
@monkeyspunk.
What did you mean by if you only text or msn someone it gets harder to talk in person?
In this case that would probably happen anyways since the girl is shy to begin with.
But I see your point, its a hell of a lot easier to talk to someone on im than in person, little more pressure I think. Could be kind of awkward too if its one of the first meetings between the two.
Thats not necessarily a bad sign. Maybe she's thinking about it. If you asked her sincerely thats all you can do right. The rest is up to her now.