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Hi I'm 17 and haven't had sex or a blowjob yet, but I now have a girlfriend and I suspect we'll be reaching there in the next few weeks/months. The issue is when I masturbate I cum pretty quickly, like less than 10 mins. I know that 1st time it doesn't really matter but I still would like to be able to last longer. So any methods you use to last longer?
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The best advice I can give is to just relax and enjoy yourself. With experience you'll be able to cope with this better. Hope this helped.
Many guys masturbate as though they need to crack one off quickly before they rush off to catch a train. Masturbation can instead also be a slow, enjoyable session where you take your time, taking yourself to the edge a number of times before actually cumming.
Try this. Wank until you are about to cum, and then stop. Then when the 'cumming' feeling subsides, start again and then stop. Train yourself to know when to stop and recognise the point of no return. Then, when you are having sex and feel that you may be about to cum, slow down and perhaps concentrate of her for a while before starting again.