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so i have been married for a few months now and we have not had sex yet. she keeps promising me that we will have sex and then when it comes time she comes up with some excuse like she has a headache or something. i can understand if she did have a headache but its clearly excuses because if she did want to we would have had sex by now. We havent even tried to have sex which is the most frustrating part. i just dont know what to do anymore. any advice would be appreciated.
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Talk about your sex in your relationship and hope it will help.
Crisis talks are what I would suggest or its gonna be a short marriage.
If she won't take it in the front then there's NO WAY she'd try that.
haha!
Reminds me of arrested development when Tobias becomes an a analysing therapist... or anal-rapist
I have to agree with Joanna, sounds a bit dodgy to me. I'd have a sit down with her and talk about things.
Your wife obviously has some serious issue that needs to be adressed. Could be any number of things, being insecure with her own body or lack of sexual experience. Maybe she had some sexual trauma in her past or some bad experience. There may be other physical or emotional reasons. There are many reasons why she may be behaving in this way.
One thing is for sure is you need to get to the bottom of the problem, approach her in a gentle and loving way, don't put pressure on her, but just ask why she is so reluctant to have that part of a normal husband wife relationship. Offer to go to counselling if she would be more comfortable with that.
Good luck, you need to help her get through what ever it is.