Question for the ladies

Former Member

Would you date a guy you knew was bisexual ?

I'm not talking a one nighter but would you have a serious relationship with a guy if you knew he played for both teams?

Does it put you off, does it turn you on? Would you always be worrying he would be off shagging a guy or would it make no difference at all?

I'm genuinely interested. :chin:

Former Member

Yes.

Some people worry when they're with a bi sexual person. On the one hand you know that you don't have all the bits and pieces that they like, and that can be quite difficult.
On the other hand, it means that out of all the men AND all the women in the world, the person still wants to be with you. Makes it more special! =]

Former Member

hi Matt,

Would not bother me....if they treated me kindly then its not an issue.

Former Member

My gf's bi. It's not a problem for me - I'd be just as insecure dating a woman who defined as exclusively gay. Either way if she cheated it would be over...

Former Member

piccolo wrote: »

My gf's bi. It's not a problem for me - I'd be just as insecure dating a woman who defined as exclusively gay. Either way if she cheated it would be over...

Exactly. Whether with a man or a woman, treating someone badly isn't on.

Former Member

My guy is bisexual I don't see how it would be any different if he were straight like me. He just happens to like both sexes being bisexual doesn't mean you can't be faithful. We entered this relationship on the understanding that'd we'd be dedicated to one another, not anyone else.

If you're worried all the time that your boyfriend is cheating on you with guys and girls, then there is obviously some trust issues that need to be dealt with.

Former Member

No it wouldn't put me off.

Former Member

it wouldnt put me off

Former Member

it does kinda turn me on, but i would only go out with a guy that really did know that there is a huge difference between being bi and being promiscuous...

Former Member

My bf 'was' bi (long story) and I'm bi myself. I can understand the worry that a partner could leave for someone you couldn't compete with (the opposite sex) but I think that is a trust issue. I would want to be sure that they had the same feelings as me about monogamy but apart from that no issues.

Former Member

i find it quite hot but i would be worried that theres twice as many ppl to entice them away and be better than me

Former Member

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Former Member

On the one hand you know that you don't have all the bits and pieces that they like, and that can be quite difficult.

i think that would be quite difficult nowing that i probably couldnt satisfy my boyfriend in the way that maybe a guy could.

but i do have lots of girl mates that are bisexual
and guys that are gay and i think they are jsut as nicer people then those that are straight.

i think bisexuals/gays have a better out look on things,
if some of the guys that are gay in my school were bisexual i would seriously go for them. but bieng friends is jsut as good

Former Member

Sadly it is a generalisation that gay and bi guys are nicer people, and unfair on straight men to say it.

Former Member

Why worry? Everyone is different. Anyone can cheat with anyone else etc.

Former Member

i bet it would be amazing! haha!
my guy is straight but he has had sex with a guy before and that thought turns me on so much! think of the threesomes!

also, my friend is buisexual and she says, when she's with a guy, thats all shes interested in, and when shes with a girl, its the same. it makes mo difference because when shes in a relationship, its exclusive.