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An incident happened in town - was I in the wrong?
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I was buying something from house of fraser at the weekend and i went to the cashier to pay for something. She just gave me a weird look when I went up there and I felt annoyed. After i paid for the thing, I decided to look at some other things as I was going out and ask I reached the exit she was standing in my way.
I had forgotten what she did before but she just stood in my way and as if she wanted to spite me or something. I got annoyed at this and after politely asking her to step aside I just got annoyed again and nudged her out of the way.
She seemed upset but I didn't care really. She then went and told her supervisor but I just walked off and went about my business. Did I do anything wrong?
I had forgotten what she did before but she just stood in my way and as if she wanted to spite me or something. I got annoyed at this and after politely asking her to step aside I just got annoyed again and nudged her out of the way.
She seemed upset but I didn't care really. She then went and told her supervisor but I just walked off and went about my business. Did I do anything wrong?
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Are you actually making this up? Do you have an imaginary anger management problem?
Only about a minute or so. Why?
You feel annoyed at next to nothing. You broke your cousin's nose for nothing. You nudged somebody out of the way, and then hung around, I assume to see if anything would happen afterwards. Certainly long enough to see them go to the supervisor.
Just sounds like you are a bit of a dick, that is actually looking for trouble.
This time I thought "screw it" and did it because i had more important things to think about than somebody I don't know trying to spite for me for whatever reason.
Why should I have done?
That would have been inappropriate and unethical.
Your cousin didn't deserve it. So why not this person?
So fair warning - unless the thread actually develops with some real investment from you to discuss or explain your actions it won't be open for a long time.
What? lol..
i don't care about this and see no need to "get my own back". She evidently seems more "hurt" by this than I am.
Besides, situations aren't so black and white. In ANY situation, we must take some responsiblity for what we do, even if directly we are not to blame. But I guess moping like a 2 year old is Ok in this case, huh?
No, but most people think their actions through by trying to imagine the consequences.
You know what - I can't be bothered. It's going to become a circular discussion, and I'm not in the mood.
Even if she was rude to you, which I doubt was deliberate given her apparent response to your "nudge", that's no reason to be rude back.
Why?
I she wanted to spite me, but I don't care.
If you don't care, why get annoyed several times and hang around to see what she did?! :yeees:
I can read people well, and know when they want to spite me or not. As I said, I don't care, they're bad if they want to spite people they don't know..
As I said, I understand people. People would still believe they are in the right when they know there is little rational reason to think that.
To be honest, I want to spite you right now.
I think we should all just ignore her posts from now on.
Can this thread be about B.B King now?
How do you mean?