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When you think they're alright but not amazing...
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Recently there's been a lot of girls in my life who I'm happy to pull / fuck, but they're not quite up to the standard where I'd want a proper relationship with them, although that's what they want. What do you guys do with people you think are alright so something can happen, but not good enough for anything serious - do you just have a fling, date them with an open mind, or not have anything from the start? Looks like I'm having to string them along if they won't sleep with me unless they think its something more serious than a fling. THX
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For your own sake, as much as theirs, if you see them wanting more move along quickly.
/Childish comments
Seriously though, lead people on for your own convenience/pleasure and it will come back to bite you. They may not be up to your standards (and if they only knew your ways, you so wouldn't be up to theirs) but they may have friends who are who won't touch you with a barge pole as far as relationships are concerned if you've got a reputation for using people.
this fella has to be trollin!
Why are you fucking gardening tools?
I totally second this like
Making a thread just to show off your trolling new sig? You don't have the troll chops for that.
When you rejoin, and you inevitably will, you should get rid of the rich snobby dude character. It's played out now.
I'm all for playing the field and enjoying yourself in that way, but I also have a great deal of respect for women - you know, they're equal to us men, not just some 'things' you use! I'm unsure what to suggest, but you really do seem to have some unresolved issues which you think acting as you do will solve.
You need to learn to deal with rejection mate!
25 years old and bragging about girls you've laid, most of us got over that stage at 18 mate.