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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yerascrote wrote: »
    Oh dear.

    Well if you want to take a Marxist dialectical outlook on things these "chavs" you refer to are most certainly working class. Decline of industry and poor social provision in working class produces material inequalities among the populace, thus resulting in lack of employment and criminal aspects of those areas. Then again, it's something that we should actively try and change and help people in these areas, not calling them scroungers or chavs. But you're too snobby and on your high horse to give a fuck aren't you?

    Marx would likely consider them to be Lumpenproletariat as opposed to the normal Proletariat, even Socialists like Marx and Trotsky were not above calling people 'social scum'.

    There comes a point where you cannot blame society or upbringing for a persons behaviour. When do these people take responsibility for their own actions? I mean, why are the poor and unemployed spending all their money on gold sovereigns and body kits for clapped out Vauxhall Novas?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    LordGrace wrote: »
    No, I KNOW they have no pride. They're stood in front of me looking an absolute mess. I'm sorry, but being poor is NO excuse. Don't call me naive, I do understand the concept of not being able to afford things, but you can go to primark and put together something cheap that doesn't make you look retarded.

    How do you dress? It's your opinion that trackies and hoodies look "retarded", personally I find them not only comfortable but also stylish.
    LordGrace wrote: »
    This person, as I've already said, has CHOSEN to conform to a negative stereotype. I've been to council estates, I have friends who live on them, there's a clear different between my friend's family who all work their arses off to scrape the bare minimum together to look after each other and the scum that live next door who run around setting cars on fire, playing loud music till 3am and not going to work.

    He's "chosen" to act like that? Do you know every single "chav" in the world? Do you know what goes on behind closed doors? No, so stop speaking on their behalf.
    LordGrace wrote: »
    And it's not JUST about the clothes, look at the next one you see. They've got greasy unwashed hair, facial hair where they can't be bothered to shave and just generally look like they don't look after themselves at all. There is NO excuse for that.

    The only people I've seen with greasy unwashed hair, facial hair where people can't be bothered to shave and just look like they don't look after themselves is at a rock gig, then again I don't think there's wrong with people like that. You do unfortunately.
    LordGrace wrote: »
    I would never ever look down on the working class as a whole. Again, this is NOT about money. anybody who gets out of bed in the morning to do a job and earn what they can day in day out to provide for their family deserves respect for doing that, doesn't matter who they are. I'm not on my high horse at all. There are plenty of schemes in placve to try and help these people into work and to educate them properly, they get to go to school like everyone else, though granted, the local schools especially inner city schools aren't always the better state schools. The point is, they seem to actively reject help of this kind in favour if "signing on", because for some reason they believe themselves to be above and beyond work. The real problem is breaking the cycle and I'm not sure how that can be done, but it is absolutely not because I'm too snobby to care. I said I was PLAYING the snob to make a point, I've had a relatively fortunate upbringing, that's luck really, and my parents have worked hard to get us here, I don't at all think that makes me better than the working class as a whole.

    Great you're proving my point. There's a lack of opportunity poorer areas. Likelihood is is that if you were born poor, then you'll stay poor.
    LordGrace wrote: »
    Of course it includes behaviour. Do not even try and tell me you don't make judgements about people based on your initial observations. This includes everything from what they're wearing to their body language to the way they speak, the words they use, EVERYTHING. This often tells you a huge amount about a person within a few seconds of seeing them so don't make out that it's shallow, absolutely everyone does it. Again, they're consciously aware of all of the above, so I don't feel bad judging them on it, because that's how they WANT to be seen.

    So where does a "scally" end and a "chav" begin?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Marx would likely consider them to be Lumpenproletariat as opposed to the normal Proletariat, even Socialists like Marx and Trotsky were not above calling people 'social scum'.

    Marx didn't believe the Lumpenproletariat were 'social scum', I suggest you re-read his works.
    There comes a point where you cannot blame society or upbringing for a persons behaviour. When do these people take responsibility for their own actions? I mean, why are the poor and unemployed spending all their money on gold sovereigns and body kits for clapped out Vauxhall Novas?

    Material inequalities of course. Buying material goods to compensate for other inequalities. If you think we're all born as blank canvases and are totally immune to the environment we're born in then you're an idiot.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yerascrote wrote: »
    Marx didn't believe the Lumpenproletariat were 'social scum', I suggest you re-read his works.

    "The "dangerous class", the social scum, that passively rotting mass thrown off by the lowest layers of the old society, may, here and there, be swept into the movement by a proletarian revolution; its conditions of life, however, prepare it far more for the part of a bribed tool of reactionary intrigue."

    Maybe someone else should do a bit of re-reading, eh? That's from his most famous work; The Communist Manifesto.
    Material inequalities of course. Buying material goods to compensate for other inequalities.

    Buying material goods to compensate for equalities is what idiots do, hence why people have no respect for them.
    If you think we're all born as blank canvases and are totally immune to the environment we're born in then you're an idiot.

    If you think that everyone in the world is entirely a product of their environment and are incapable of applying pragmatism, logic or any form of reason to their situation in an attempt to better it then you're the idiot.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    "The "dangerous class", the social scum, that passively rotting mass thrown off by the lowest layers of the old society, may, here and there, be swept into the movement by a proletarian revolution; its conditions of life, however, prepare it far more for the part of a bribed tool of reactionary intrigue."

    Maybe someone else should do a bit of re-reading, eh? That's from his most famous work; The Communist Manifesto.

    I've read The Communist Manifesto plenty of times thank you and Marx is merely describing the social conditions that that class find themselves in.
    Buying material goods to compensate for equalities is what idiots do, hence why people have no respect for them.


    What's this about applying pragmatism, logic or reason?
    If you think that everyone in the world is entirely a product of their environment and are incapable of applying pragmatism, logic or any form of reason to their situation in an attempt to better it then you're the idiot.

    I'm not saying either way. People do have to take responsibility of their own actions, that's why if a poor person breaks into someone's house, murders them and robs them then I think they should serve a long time in prison, still doesn't stop me questioning why they done their actions, finding out how we can stop future instances happening.

    You on the other hand, see a group of people wearing trackies in a housing estate and assume they're all scrounging on benefits, the girls have 3 kids by the time they're 20, are antisocial drug users and don't deserve the time of day. It's class snobbery.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yerascrote wrote: »
    You on the other hand, see a group of people wearing trackies in a housing estate and assume they're all scrounging on benefits, the girls have 3 kids by the time they're 20, are antisocial drug users and don't deserve the time of day. It's class snobbery.

    Was about to make a post but this ^^ basically. You can define a chav as whatever, but people call people chavs all over based on appearance. And you can't make an in depth judgement about someone based on their appearance. And you shouldn't prejudice against someone based on their appearance either.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yerascrote wrote: »
    How do you dress? It's your opinion that trackies and hoodies look "retarded", personally I find them not only comfortable but also stylish.
    No. It is a universal fact that if someone turns up to a job interview in a tracksuit they will not be taken seriously. It's not about the tracksuit, it's about the general lack of interest in the way they will be percieved.

    Yerascrote wrote: »
    He's "chosen" to act like that? Do you know every single "chav" in the world? Do you know what goes on behind closed doors? No, so stop speaking on their behalf.
    I don't give a shit what goes on behind closed doors, the discussion is about them as they are in public. When I see them spitting on street corners shouting "alright love" at me and then laughing, with that awful chav accent that sounds like nobody taught them to speak properly, at 3 in the afternoon, outside a shop with a can of beer in their hand, what am I suppopsed to think other than that they're a complete moron with nothing better to do with their lives? There is nothing whatsoever to give me any other impression and so I mentally refer to them as chav. If they don't like it they can sort themselves out.

    Yerascrote wrote: »
    The only people I've seen with greasy unwashed hair, facial hair where people can't be bothered to shave and just look like they don't look after themselves is at a rock gig, then again I don't think there's wrong with people like that. You do unfortunately.
    Come to Portsmouth, then. Seriously.

    Yerascrote wrote: »
    Great you're proving my point. There's a lack of opportunity poorer areas. Likelihood is is that if you were born poor, then you'll stay poor.
    I'm sorry but I don't care how poor they are, it is NO excuse for the kind of behaviour I just described. And as Illuminatus pointed out, if they're so poor, maybe they should spoend money on things more important than sovereigns.

    Yerascrote wrote: »
    So where does a "scally" end and a "chav" begin?
    I've never even heard the word scally before, nobody down south uses that word as far as I know. They're all just chavs.
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    ShyBoy wrote: »
    Was about to make a post but this ^^ basically. You can define a chav as whatever, but people call people chavs all over based on appearance. And you can't make an in depth judgement about someone based on their appearance. And you shouldn't prejudice against someone based on their appearance either.

    It's starting to irritate me how naive people are. Do you honestly think that the only information you gain when you see a stranger is about what they're wearing? You pick up a LOT about them in seconds. You're probably not aware of it but you're registering everything from the way they look at you to the way they're standing, their body langauge, what they're doing, who they're with, what they sound like. When someone calls someone else a chav it's a judgement based on all of that and more, not just their physical appearance. Chavs generally give a negative impression within seconds of meeting them through more than just their appearance alone. If you don't believe me, get out of the house and have a look for yourself.
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    SkiveSkive Posts: 15,286 Skive's The Limit
    Actually, I think you'll find the etymology is pretty unclear and that's just one possibility. That's not important though, many words have roots in other words and are adopted by others over time. Meanings change, words change, it's called semantic drift. Chav's current and most widespread meaning certainly didn't start with the middle class.

    Chav is still just slang. It's been adopted by the Daily Hate Mail and other middle class institutions as term for those that they percieve to be tacky and of the underclass.

    Chav comes from the Roamny word Chavi. It is clear to those that know the word for the original term. I've seen it develop. As a kid in primary school cahv was a commen term, but it was never meant in a derogatory manner.

    As 'Gypsy' turned into the derogatory 'Gypo', 'Chavi' turnerd into the derogatory 'Chav'.
    And pikey is a racist term. A term used all to frequently by those that love to use the word 'Chav'.

    It's either ignorant or it's hateful. Either way it's offensive and stupid.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What's the etymology of pikey Skive?
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    SkiveSkive Posts: 15,286 Skive's The Limit
    LordGrace wrote: »
    It's starting to irritate me how naive people are. Do you honestly think that the only information you gain when you see a stranger is about what they're wearing? You pick up a LOT about them in seconds. You're probably not aware of it but you're registering everything from the way they look at you to the way they're standing, their body langauge, what they're doing, who they're with, what they sound like. When someone calls someone else a chav it's a judgement based on all of that and more, not just their physical appearance. Chavs generally give a negative impression within seconds of meeting them through more than just their appearance alone. If you don't believe me, get out of the house and have a look for yourself.

    People are people.

    People tht assume that all people that dress liek 'Chav' are criminals are as small minded and stupid as those that consider all 'Emos' to be self harmers.

    It's bollocks.

    It's not their fault for conforming to sterotype, it's your stupidity in creating and believing in the steryotype.

    Sterotypes are used most often by the small minded ignorant cunts who look for reassurance that they're better than others.

    This website is proof sterotypes are bollocks. Here we have goths, chavsl, emos - whatever stupid lable you can think of. All talking to each other judged on there thoughts and opinions. You're here talkign to people you wouldn't ordinarily give the time o day beacause you brsuh them asside as chavs or whatever. It's a very sad attitude to have, and say alot about you.
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    SkiveSkive Posts: 15,286 Skive's The Limit
    What's the etymology of pikey Skive?

    Turnpike traveller. It's a racist term as offensive to Romany Gypsies as Nigger is to blacks.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yerascrote wrote: »
    I've read The Communist Manifesto plenty of times thank you and Marx is merely describing the social conditions that that class find themselves in.

    No he isn't.

    http://original.britannica.com/eb/article-9049344/Lumpenproletariat

    Also:

    "In the many translations, including those by Engels, the German 'lumpenproletariat' is variously rendered as 'social scum', 'dangerous classes', 'mob', 'swell-mob', "ragamuffin', 'ragged-proletariat'. And Marx and Engels often use other terms in place of 'lumpenproletariat' (particularly 'la bohème' and 'lazzaroni' but also German versions of the above English translations)" - http://libcom.org/library/deleuze-marx-politics-nicholas-thoburn-3
    What's this about applying pragmatism, logic or reason?

    Pragmatism refers to behavior which temporarily sets aside one ideal to pursue a greater ideal. Logic is a way of thinking where the aim is to get a valid inference from a set of premises. Reason could be considered superset of logic involving analysis and synthesis of ideas.

    It could be argued that someone who buys and wears alot of gold sovereign rings could be doing so as a display of wealth, a means of setting themselves 'socially higher' than their peers; realisation of an ideal. Instead of buying gold sovereigns maybe it would be better for them to spend their money buying a suit and tie and looking for a decent job, or spending that money to go to college. Maybe someone holds the ideal that they don't care how their judged for how they dress, yet still people judge them because of it and it's detrimental to themselves. Pragmatically, they should put aside that ideal and dress in a manner that gets them respect in order to get a good job and better themselves; that being a greater ideal. Regardless of whether it's right to judge someone on appearance people still do and have done for since the dawn of civilization, this is how it has always been and it will never change. To actively ignore this aspect to the detriment of your own wellbeing is a stupid choice, regardless of wealth or class.
    I'm not saying either way. People do have to take responsibility of their own actions, that's why if a poor person breaks into someone's house, murders them and robs them then I think they should serve a long time in prison, still doesn't stop me questioning why they done their actions, finding out how we can stop future instances happening.

    Theft can be justified on some instances, even murder. However, those instances are few and far between. But when you're stealing because it's easier than getting a job, or cars for joyriding etc. then you're simply scum.
    You on the other hand, see a group of people wearing trackies in a housing estate and assume they're all scrounging on benefits, the girls have 3 kids by the time they're 20, are antisocial drug users and don't deserve the time of day. It's class snobbery.

    Don't put words in my mouth, I've never said said and I've already replied to a similar comment so I'll just cut and paste my last response:

    "Nice straw man argument.

    Did I say it's right to treat everyone that way? No, I said 9 times out of 10 that the generalization is correct in the behaviour sense of the word. I also said in an earlier post that 'chav' has a meaning that goes far beyond a persons class. I did not say that people should be prejudged because they're from a council estate and wear trackies because I've been pretty clear that it wouldn't make them a chav, but in most cases they turn out to be when you've got a real basis for judgment."

    Also, how can it be class snobbery when I'm working class myself?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Skive wrote: »
    People are people.

    People tht assume that all people that dress liek 'Chav' are criminals are as small minded and stupid as those that consider all 'Emos' to be self harmers.

    It's bollocks.

    It's not their fault for conforming to sterotype, it's your stupidity in creating and believing in the steryotype.

    Sterotypes are used most often by the small minded ignorant cunts who look for reassurance that they're better than others.

    This website is proof sterotypes are bollocks. Here we have goths, chavsl, emos - whatever stupid lable you can think of. All talking to each other judged on there thoughts and opinions. You're here talkign to people you wouldn't ordinarily give the time o day beacause you brsuh them asside as chavs or whatever. It's a very sad attitude to have, and say alot about you.

    Oh please. Is what you're wearing now an accident? No. You chose it, you bought it, you decided to put it on this morning. When a 15 year old boy dyes his hair black and gets that daft fringe and starts wearing black, eyeliner, DELIBERATELY copying his new idol, what's-his-face from my chemical romance, who he loves because he sings all those very 'EMOtional' songs, I'm not allowed to call him an emo or assume he's an attention seeking self harmer because that's judgemental? He's gone out of his way to get himself that label by conforming to the stereotype, and whether you're prepared to admit it or not, he's done it all for attention.

    If you choose to dress like that, it's because you want to be an emo, and therefore you deal with whatever judgements people will make about you. If you don't want people to call you an emo, don't try so hard to look exactly like one. It's exactly the same for chavs. To say that stereotyping is an unfair judgement is to say that people don't have responsibility for their own actions when it comes to dressing themselves.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    LordGrace wrote: »
    No. It is a universal fact that if someone turns up to a job interview in a tracksuit they will not be taken seriously. It's not about the tracksuit, it's about the general lack of interest in the way they will be percieved.

    Who the hell mentioned a job inteview? :confused:
    LordGrace wrote: »
    I don't give a shit what goes on behind closed doors, the discussion is about them as they are in public.

    Hence lies the problem. I do care.
    LordGrace wrote: »
    When I see them spitting on street corners shouting "alright love" at me and then laughing, with that awful chav accent that sounds like nobody taught them to speak properly, at 3 in the afternoon, outside a shop with a can of beer in their hand, what am I suppopsed to think other than that they're a complete moron with nothing better to do with their lives? There is nothing whatsoever to give me any other impression and so I mentally refer to them as chav. If they don't like it they can sort themselves out.

    So if was a bunch of men in suits would they still be chavs in your eyes?
    LordGrace wrote: »
    I'm sorry but I don't care how poor they are, it is NO excuse for the kind of behaviour I just described. And as Illuminatus pointed out, if they're so poor, maybe they should spoend money on things more important than sovereigns.

    So all chavs wear soveriegn rings? Where did soveriegn rings and job interviews come from?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Skive wrote: »
    Chav is still just slang. It's been adopted by the Daily Hate Mail and other middle class institutions as term for those that they percieve to be tacky and of the underclass.

    Chav comes from the Roamny word Chavi. It is clear to those that know the word for the original term. I've seen it develop. As a kid in primary school cahv was a commen term, but it was never meant in a derogatory manner.

    As 'Gypsy' turned into the derogatory 'Gypo', 'Chavi' turnerd into the derogatory 'Chav'.
    And pikey is a racist term. A term used all to frequently by those that love to use the word 'Chav'.

    It's either ignorant or it's hateful. Either way it's offensive and stupid.

    Chavs just one of the words for a social phenomenon that's got various equivalents all over the country. For example they call them 'neds' in Scotland, where I live we used to call them 'townies'. Chav doesn't mean small romany boy anymore, semantics have drifted. In the north-east the term 'charva' ment prostitute, the meaning of that changed too to mean 'chav' today.

    Meanings change, words change.
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    SkiveSkive Posts: 15,286 Skive's The Limit
    LordGrace wrote: »
    . When a 15 year old boy dyes his hair black and gets that daft fringe and starts wearing black, eyeliner, DELIBERATELY copying his new idol, what's-his-face from my chemical romance, who he loves because he sings all those very 'EMOtional' songs, I'm not allowed to call him an emo or assume he's an attention seeking self harmer because that's judgemental?.

    Of course it's judgemental.

    He's not the one linking self harm to dressin like an 'Emo' YOU ARE.

    It's not rocket science.
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    SkiveSkive Posts: 15,286 Skive's The Limit
    Chavs just one of the words for a social phenomenon that's got various equivalents all over the country. For example they call them 'neds' in Scotland, where I live we used to call them 'townies'. Chav doesn't mean small romany boy anymore, semantics have drifted. In the north-east the term 'charva' ment prostitute, the meaning of that changed too to mean 'chav' today.

    Meanings change, words change.

    Of course they change.

    Chav has now replaced gypo - also an offensive, lazy and ignorant term.

    Simply put, you're aguing that it's fair to make judgements about people on the way the look and then label them with a derogatory term. You're arguing that it's their fault because they choose to dress like that, rather than fit some the idea you have of what a respecatable person looks like. It's STUPID.

    You're creating the sterotype, you're creating the devision.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yerascrote wrote: »
    Who the hell mentioned a job inteview?
    Me, in an attempt to suggest an example where it's well known that without dressing a certain way you will not be taken seriously. If you thought about it for 30 seconds you'd see the parellel between that and seeing someone on a street corner. The difference isn't that huge. the judgements made are the same.

    Hence lies the problem. I do care.
    Yeah, you're right, that IS the problem. We're talking about stereotyping and generalizing. These are based on initial contact with someone and aren't even relevent to the person's home situation or actual personality. It's about all the things I've already stated like body language, behaviour and general hygeine.


    So if was a bunch of men in suits would they still be chavs in your eyes?
    What a stupid question. What if they were elephants? What if they had no heads? Please, don't bring up hypothetical scenarios which would never happen and are therefore irrelevant.

    So all chavs wear soveriegn rings? Where did soveriegn rings and job interviews come from?
    No. Not every chav has a sovereign. I never even suggested they did. Again, it was an EXAMPLE, used to try to make a point, which you yet again completely missed.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Skive wrote: »
    Of course they change.

    Chav has now replaced gypo - also an offensive, lazy and ignorant term.

    No it hasn't, gypo refers to criminal travellers.
    Simply put, you're aguing that it's fair to make judgements about people on the way the look and then label them with a derogatory term. You're arguing that it's their fault because they choose to dress like that, rather than fit some the idea you have of what a respecatable person looks like. It's STUPID.

    It's common societal practice and has existed since the dawn of civilization. If it's so stupid, turn up to a job or job interview dress however you please and see how far that goes. It's nice to sit on the internet with your lofty ideals but I dare you to put them into practice.

    You like everyone judges people based on their appearance every day, if you say otherwise you are a liar.
    You're creating the sterotype, you're creating the devision.

    I can't create stereotypes, I don't control peoples dress or behaviour. I merely observe them and recognise trends.
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    LordGrace wrote: »
    Me, in an attempt to suggest an example where it's well known that without dressing a certain way you will not be taken seriously. If you thought about it for 30 seconds you'd see the parellel between that and seeing someone on a street corner. The difference isn't that huge. the judgements made are the same.

    You didn't say it was an example, you just brought it up out of the blue.
    LordGrace wrote: »
    Yeah, you're right, that IS the problem. We're talking about stereotyping and generalizing. These are based on initial contact with someone and aren't even relevent to the person's home situation or actual personality. It's about all the things I've already stated like body language, behaviour and general hygeine.

    Really so you can tell if someone is a dole scrounger or a girl who's expecting her third kid by the time she's 13 from just walking past a few people? Fucking idiot. :rolleyes:

    LordGrace wrote: »
    What a stupid question. What if they were elephants? What if they had no heads? Please, don't bring up hypothetical scenarios which would never happen and are therefore irrelevant.


    No it's not a stupid question, are they chavs or not?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I hate the term chav. It's very over used and meaningless, just a way for people to insult others they consider beneath them.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Some people are beneath others, it's a fact of life.
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    SkiveSkive Posts: 15,286 Skive's The Limit
    Some people are beneath others, it's a fact of life.

    And some judgmental pricks like to consider other beneath them depite not having a clue about them - and simply judgeing them on the way they look or where they come from. Fact of life prooved by yourself and unfortunately far too many others.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I know people who use the term "chav" or "chavvy" to describe any popular music apart from indie/rock, or people who like dance music. How is that in any way meaningful?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Skive wrote: »
    And some judgmental pricks like to consider other beneath them depite not having a clue about them - and simply judgeing them on the way they look or where they come from. Fact of life prooved by yourself and unfortunately far too many others.

    I'm above you, as I do not stoop to personal insults.

    Regardless, not everyone is equal. Do you consider yourself equal to a child molester or murderer? A wifebeater?
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    Yerascrote wrote: »
    You didn't say it was an example, you just brought it up out of the blue.
    I am so sorry, my mistake, I accidently confused you for someone intelligent. Anyone with any intelligence would have understood what I was trying to say even if they didn't agree.
    Really so you can tell if someone is a dole scrounger or a girl who's expecting her third kid by the time she's 13 from just walking past a few people? Fucking idiot. :rolleyes:
    Firstly, can we try and keep this at least reasonably mature, I've managed to avoid resorting to just calling you an idiot, maybe you should try it too. It's a discussion, not a school playground.

    You seem to be forgetting that the way a stereotype works is that you have your ideas about that category, for example, they don't work, they're baby factories, they're stupid. Then you have the characteristics you think indicate this, such as the way they dress, they way they act in public. It's called a generalization because you can't possibly KNOW for sure if any of it's true.
    No it's not a stupid question, are they chavs or not?
    No they are not chavs, I still wouldn't respond to them and I wouldn't have any respect for them but my assumptions about them and their background would obviously be different. It doesn't happen though, and there's a reason for that.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    LordGrace wrote:
    Firstly, can we try and keep this at least reasonably mature, I've managed to avoid resorting to just calling you an idiot, maybe you should try it too. It's a discussion, not a school playground.

    He stooped to calling me an idiot earlier, makes you think....
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    SkiveSkive Posts: 15,286 Skive's The Limit
    No it hasn't, gypo refers to criminal travellers.

    Gypos has for years been used to describe people who would now under you criteria be described as chavs. Very popular amongst immature secondary school kids.
    It's common societal practice and has existed since the dawn of civilization.

    That's justification then. Because it's common and it's been done for thousands of years does not make it clever.
    If it's so stupid, turn up to a job or job interview dress however you please and see how far that goes.

    Where has job interviews come itno it. Your talkgin about judging people on the appearance thoughout any walk of life, not just job interviews.
    It's nice to sit on the internet with your lofty ideals but I dare you to put them into practice.

    I do. I'll admit I didn't used to but I liek to think I've wised up, and certainly grown up.
    You like everyone judges people based on their appearance every day, if you say otherwise you are a liar.

    Oh yes you have to. But I don't write people off as scum based on apearance. I make judgements on waht I have to judge, but I recognise there's plently more to jusge somebosy on than appearance.
    I can't create stereotypes, I don't control peoples dress or behaviour. I merely observe them and recognise trends.

    Of course you do. Sterotypes are created by the poeple makign pre judgements, not those that are bneing pre judged.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    He stooped to calling me an idiot earlier, makes you think....

    ... that they must be running out of arguments because if they had more to say, they wouldn't need to stoop so low.
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