Shy girl, how do i get her?

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This girl i met was one hell of a sexy bitch, and i felt bending her over right there and then, in pizza hut. But anyway, i got on really well with her and all her friends was saying that she liked me.Then i saw her the next night at this party and we were doing the standard flirting procedure. She wouldnt pull me because she "didnt know me well enough" she had only ever pulled like 2 other guys before. i then txt her a few days later cause she said "txt me" asking her to go out in a group of people. then she said that she just wanted to be "friends." I was shocked because at the party she heard i wanted to pull her and she told she would but wanted to get to know me. I was puzzled by this sudden change of feeling. Then one of her friends, also one of my close friends said that she had asked how far i had gone. she then proceeded on telling her that i, lets put it this way, "Had gone the distance" she may have been put off by this. She is a very shy girl but she soooooo fine and a great personality to boot. waz uuppppppppp with that?

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Originally posted by chrishot4u:
This girl i met was one hell of a sexy bitch, and i felt bending her over right there and then, in pizza hut. But anyway, i got on really well with her and all her friends was saying that she liked me.Then i saw her the next night at this party and we were doing the standard flirting procedure. She wouldnt pull me because she "didnt know me well enough" she had only ever pulled like 2 other guys before. i then txt her a few days later cause she said "txt me" asking her to go out in a group of people. then she said that she just wanted to be "friends." I was shocked because at the party she heard i wanted to pull her and she told she would but wanted to get to know me. I was puzzled by this sudden change of feeling. Then one of her friends, also one of my close friends said that she had asked how far i had gone. she then proceeded on telling her that i, lets put it this way, "Had gone the distance" she may have been put off by this. She is a very shy girl but she soooooo fine and a great personality to boot. waz uuppppppppp with that?

Take time. If you really like her then you'll be better off becoming her friend and getting to know her properley before making your move. She may feel threatened by you having more experience than her, or she feels she may let herself go. Be patient.

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or maybe shes just spoken to you a bit and decided she hates you???

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i'm not denying that women are stupid; God made them to match the men.

Former Member

Very likely whizzy, judging by Chris's general attitude towards girls.

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I didn't lose my mind, it was mine to give away.

Former Member

If u consider yourself good posters then your advice is shit. instead of picking me out just cause i spoke the truth why dont u just answer the post with some constructive advice instead if u read the post u would actually realise that u r wrong. just cause i speak about them like that dont mean i think that. thats just the way i speak. i treat girls well, but u wouldnt know that would u.

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No, we wouldn't cos we don't know you. And because we don't know you, the only impression we get is from the way you talk. And when your opening line to this post is something like "I could just do her there and then", it gives us the impression your a bit of a player. And players aren't really that nice to girls - in general.

So if you want us to give contructive advice, I would suggest you start to respect what we say and what we do.

If you don't like the way this site works, FUCK OFF! Ok.

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I didn't lose my mind, it was mine to give away.

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Originally posted by Turtle:

If you don't like the way this site works, FUCK OFF! Ok.

I think you should have some respect for chris too! However I was a bit concerened the way chris refers to girls as a posession (see title)

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Don't take life seriously because you can't come out of it alive

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i didnt mean to refer to her as an object its just the only word i could think of at the time. I wont fuck off cause its good and i dont mind other people caus they answer the problem, u just insult me!
Thanks the the support brokenheart <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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Originally posted by Turtle:
No, we wouldn't cos we don't know you. And because we don't know you, the only impression we get is from the way you talk. And when your opening line to this post is something like "I could just do her there and then", it gives us the impression your a bit of a player. And players aren't really that nice to girls - in general.

So if you want us to give contructive advice, I would suggest you start to respect what we say and what we do.

If you don't like the way this site works, FUCK OFF! Ok.

i totally agree turtle. as a woman and a feminist i find your attitude concerning and offensive. i would also like to highlight turtles last sentence (above) and say, that is exactly what you can do.

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i'm not denying that women are stupid; God made them to match the men.

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Chris is a teenage boy. Do I need to ellaborate on that one?! So long as he treats his girlies well and buys them lots of chocolate, he's better than most <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

Leave him alone Turtle..for me? <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/redface.gif"&gt; You know how I hate fighting, and it's not as if he's Blood Golem or anything.

*sits cross-legged and sings*

"All you need is love, love...love is all you need"

I'm going to go and shoot someone now.

*|* Chica *|*

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Lol Chica...don't worry, everyone is safe. I've shot Chica. She deserved it after that singing! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

Yes, I've left whatshisface alone. You're right, he's not bad. Just if he could show a little respect for the regulars, girls, whoever, then it would be much appreciated.

DM

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Girl-From-Mars

i have to say, i agree with chris. he was just asking a question that anyone could ask, and just coz he had spoken up in another post abotu something, you were unhelpful to him as a result. whizzygirl, its a bit harsh isnt it, suggesting in a vindictive way that she mates him?!?! okay i agree the way he talks about girl generally is somewhat suspect.. but he asked for advice, not being judged or slagged off. chris, i advise that if you wanat people to get on with you here that you write about people in a way that suggests you respect them and dont just want to "bend them over" and refer to girls as "bitches". if its not the way you feel, then dont put on an act.

but back to the topic... i suggest you just try and get to know her as a friend, and then maybe ask her out once you know her better, as that is what she said in the first place.

good luck anyway! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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Originally posted by Girl-From-Mars:
whizzygirl, its a bit harsh isnt it, suggesting in a vindictive way that she mates him?!?! okay i agree the way he talks about girl generally is somewhat suspect.. but he asked for advice, not being judged or slagged off. chris, i advise that if you wanat people to get on with you here that you write about people in a way that suggests you respect them and dont just want to "bend them over" and refer to girls as "bitches". if its not the way you feel, then dont put on an act.

i didn't actually mean it in a vindictive way - its a possibility isn't it?

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i'm not denying that women are stupid; God made them to match the men.

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ok guys i get the picture now, ill be nice!

Girl-From-Mars

ok whizzygirl... i dont want to cause a fight, i just think that all people are equal here unless they do something serious to prove otherwise, and telling it like it is isnt really that serious. just causes a bit of a stir i guess!

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*Chica bites Turtle's leg*

You fiend! Scoundrel! Scallywag! Bounder!

Damn you Turtle, I'll never forgive you for this!

*sits in the corner and cries*

Sorry Chris, am I going off topic? *lol* Sorry, couldn't resist that one.

*|* Chica *|*

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Originally posted by Chica:

*Chica bites Turtle's leg*

You fiend! Scoundrel! Scallywag! Bounder!

Damn you Turtle, I'll never forgive you for this!

*sits in the corner and cries*

Sorry Chris, am I going off topic? *lol* Sorry, couldn't resist that one.

*|* Chica *|*

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OWWW!!! I'm sorry chica. there there.

*gives chica a hug n kiss* now smile and cheer up! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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i dont appreciate being called whatsitsface, i have a name "chrishot4u" its my real name, im so ashamed