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Ok, well I will start off by saying I am 14 years old, a virgin, and I have been going out with my girlfriend for 3 months.
My penis has a clear, purplish bump at the tip of the uthera. I have had this since as far back as I can remember. We have pretty much felt each other up and shes felt my penis but i guess she didn't notice. Sometimes when I have an erection it is hardly noticeable, while other times u can clearly see that somethings wrong. I have also noticed that when i masturbated I do not shoot it out with very much force.
I think I am going to talk to my dad and go to the doctors, but I wanted to get some opinion before I have to have that awkward conversation with him.
My penis has a clear, purplish bump at the tip of the uthera. I have had this since as far back as I can remember. We have pretty much felt each other up and shes felt my penis but i guess she didn't notice. Sometimes when I have an erection it is hardly noticeable, while other times u can clearly see that somethings wrong. I have also noticed that when i masturbated I do not shoot it out with very much force.
I think I am going to talk to my dad and go to the doctors, but I wanted to get some opinion before I have to have that awkward conversation with him.
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Sorry if im not much help!
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Thanks for the quick response.
Well, I have all summer to talk to my dad about this... :banghead:
I guess I'm just a little nervous because the next time we do anything and she notices it I don't want her to be like "WTF is that?" And me have nothing to tell her.
I'll just make that doctor appointment. Talking to my dad about it won't be horrible, it's just something I would rather not do.
Ive probably worded that all wrong!
Im glad i could help though you just have to think, going to the doctors wont be that bad because they deal with that kind of thing and worse like everyday!
When you masturbate, does the 'bump' stop you from shooting? Does the bump affect your peeing too? Does it affect how far you can pull back your foreskin? If 'yes' to any of these, medical opinion may be neccessary. If it is harmless, it may be worth just leaving it unless it is really big and affecting you psychologically.
Some people do shoot far - but many don't. If you don't shoot far, that could be just the way you are.
One more point, any girl that loves you, should not judge you if you have a non-standard penis. Some guys have penises that are too small, too bent, too big, no foreskin, too much foreskin etc .. everyone is different and your penis should be not affect your feeling of self-worth. For all you know, that 'bump' may in fact make sex more pleasurable for your girlfriend ... like 'ribbed' condoms are supposed to be.
A good doctor will listen to you and give all the help and reassurance you need. I've been along to see my own doc enough times over intimate matters. Even since I was twelve. So don't worry, sweetie. You'll be alright I'm sure.
Love Poppi
Don't hesitate in getting it checked out. As for the ejaculation thing it doesn't have to shoot out forcefully all the while but even still it's unusual for somebody aged 14 to have ejaculatory problems. And as for your dad, be honest and straightforward. It's better to nip something like this in the bud before it can cause any problems later on.