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How long should you stay down there?
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Hello.
Only recently I gave my boyfriend a blowjob for the first time. He didn't ejaculate and I'm wondering am I doing something wrong? I'm new to this so I wasn't too sure what I was doing but he seemed to enjoy it.
How long should I spend down there doing my stuff? I spent a good five minutes or so down there I think, is this too long or short a time? How long do you need to be down there to make him come? Also, any tips on what to do would be welcome.
Thankyou!
Kazooz. x
Only recently I gave my boyfriend a blowjob for the first time. He didn't ejaculate and I'm wondering am I doing something wrong? I'm new to this so I wasn't too sure what I was doing but he seemed to enjoy it.
How long should I spend down there doing my stuff? I spent a good five minutes or so down there I think, is this too long or short a time? How long do you need to be down there to make him come? Also, any tips on what to do would be welcome.
Thankyou!
Kazooz. x
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dont worry i'm sure your b/f had fun even if you didnt finish him off with oral I would asumme he finished later with you in a different way,
just persevere with it! even though it hurts and you're mouth stays in that shape for an hour afterwards!!
:rolleyes:
and don't forget you have to decide....spit or swallow...
xxx
I do want to pleasure him, but in a way I didn't want him to come because I don't know whether to spit or swallow! What is better? I can't imagine it tasting nice. When he does come, is there a lot of the stuff?
I have had girls who swollow and some that dont it dont really bother me either way,
secondly amount, all guys shoot different amounts but thats also govened byt he perivous health factor, age, and how recently they have climaxed, i.e if it's his second or third of the night it wnot be much, same thing if he's been sorting himself out when not with you,
Okay, the average man ejaculates about a tea-spoon of semen when he cums. The taste varies a lot depending on diet, apparrently, but if he cums right at the back of your mouth, you really won't taste it much.
Five minutes is not a long time really. Some lads could be excited enough just at the thought of a blow job to reach orgasm in 5 minutes, but don't count on it. People vary anyway, but your technique will make a big difference to speed too.
You'll certainly get faster as you get more practiced. However, men who cum quickly at first from the sheer thrill and novelty may last longer once they get used to it a bit.
The only way to know for sure if the taste is desirable, tolerable or downright nasty is to taste it once. If you just can't abide it after that then just jack him off to finish.
Good luck and happy experimenting!
also if anyone would like to test the theory by making me eat different things before taste testing me I would be happy to be the test subject
I actually think you taste it less in your mouth in you swallow it straight down, but if you don't the taste can make you gag as its often quite bitter.
That said I have a friend who loves the taste of the stuff!
If you can't bear the taste one good trick is to just happen to be doin something like licking his bals when he comes.
Oh, and boys: there is nothing ruder than forcing your partners head downwards on to your dick. She is highly likely to vomit on you, or, very sensibly, she may bite you to teach you a lesson!
mwah
That might turn some men on
actually no dear god no
Everything is broken down into sugars, starches and proteins at a molecular level so again I think the whole food/ejaculate taste correlation is pure urban myth.
Kinda hard to explain to a foundation or government agency that you need to solve the mystery of whether a change of diet would make ejaculate tastier for the ladies. lol
stop whinging neway, practice makes perfect