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Coping with 15 and 18-rated films

BillieTheBotBillieTheBot Posts: 8,721 Bot
edited January 2023 in General Chat
I watched a few 18's when I was below-age. Now that I have gone well above that (I'm 29), I find that I'm unable to watch many 15's and 18's, especially those that are graphic. The definite no-no's are:

- A Nightmare on Elm Street
- Starship Troopers
- Dusk 'Til Dawn

(all 18's)

Then I recently discovered Cube Zero. It's only a 15 and it has the most grusome death scene I've ever seen. I did like the rest of the film and its concept though. If it's all action and explosion, like Arnie, Bond 007, Demolition Man, Mad Max etc, then I have no problem with those. If it's graphic, then no-no. Having said that, I don't have a problem with Silence of the Lambs.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Sorry, nope, I think I can watch anything (not a challange)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Monserrat wrote: »
    Then I recently discovered Cube Zero. It's only a 15 and it has the most grusome death scene I've ever seen.

    Is it a good film? Remember watching the first one, some gruesome parts but very engaging all the same.

    Starship Troopers is a satire, all the gruesome parts have comical elements to them.

    As for your question, nope, I can watch pretty much anything and not get weirded out by it.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Pretty rare that in todays desensitized society I reckon.

    I'm the opposite, watched to much shite through my years very little if anything makes me turn off. Saw Cannibal Holocaust about 4 years ago which is infamous for torture/abortion, and even worse real animal sacrifices (including one very graphic scene with a turtle) :o and even that didn't make me feel uneasy.

    Which is quite weird, 'cos when I see fake animals dying in films it normally has a deeper impact than watching a person die.

    That said, IT the clown scared the shite out of me when I was 6, had nightmares for weeks. And there's no way on earth I'd sit through '2 girls, 1 cup' after some cunt tricked me into watching it. If that counts? Savage!
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    Indrid ColdIndrid Cold Posts: 16,688 Skive's The Limit
    I don't like bloody thing either. It's not the blood that scares me actually (a scene someone bleed to death on a floor, for example, would be unpleasant but not frightening) but I hate scenes where you see the insides of people.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm a wimp but I can watch (and love) the Devil's Rejects which is a bit gory. I hate hate hate the Saw films. Just grosses me out.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    z0ma wrote: »
    And there's no way on earth I'd sit through '2 girls, 1 cup' after some cunt tricked me into watching it. If that counts? Savage!

    I watched that because someone told me I had to. I can't say it did anything for me, but it didn't make me want to be sick like some people claimed. There's no context to the video, so there's nothing for me to get bothered about in the slightest. I have no problem watching over the top violent films, especially horror films, because they're usually pretty shit, and so over the top that they lose any effect. Give me the final scene of Dancer in the Dark, or the bit of Apocalypse Now when Clean gets shot. Watching a film where a character you've built an emotional attachment to has something like this happen to them, and it's far more effective. A random person getting something horrible done to them is far worse. Incidentally, this is why Irreversible is far more disturbing the second time round, because you know the characters when you see what happens (if you haven't seen it, the scenes play out in reverse order, so all of the horror that you see near the start has no context until you watch the end, which is actually the start :confused:). The most shocking film I've seen is probably Fitna because it includes footage of Ken Bigley being beheaded, and obviously I know it's a real man and a real video (it doesn't show the whole thing, but shows the start and the end, cutting away in between, but keeping the sound on - it's pretty traumatic to watch tbh). Like I said, there's a context there.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    z0ma wrote: »
    That said, IT the clown scared the shite out of me when I was 6, had nightmares for weeks.
    That is possibly the worst movie I've ever seen in my life. I was so disappointed :(. I couldn't even follow it properly, and I've read (and loved) the book. I was just bored the whole way through and I HATE horror movies. I can barely watch The Haunting ffs :o.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Give me the final scene of Dancer in the Dark, or the bit of Apocalypse Now when Clean gets shot. Watching a film where a character you've built an emotional attachment to has something like this happen to them, and it's far more effective.

    Gawd yes. After I was just sat in silence in my living room for half an hour in shock I guess.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    katralla wrote: »
    Sorry, nope, I think I can watch anything (not a challange)

    Yeah I think I'll go along with that
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Most gross out horrors are crap though - and substitute special effects for real chills or any fellow feeling with the characters. That's the reason I don't watch them - not because they gross out.

    (In terms of gore Saving Private Ryan out does them all, but is a pretty good movie
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I take back everything I previously said.

    Requiem for a Dream is the most sickening film i've ever sat and watched. Watching it years ago, I vowed I'd never sit through it again yet after watching it earlier tonight I realise you don't need gore, violence to make a film. Real life is a far scarier thing.

    I'd vow any one single member of this forum to sit through that film and not feel deeply appauled. Certain scenes are just unwatchable. Seriously, felt heart strings move I never knew I had.

    Fucking deep.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ichii the Killer had me reaching for the off button
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Reqiuem for a Dream is definately a film I won't be watching again. Couldn't give a fuck bout the fella, the mother's story was the one that made me freak out. :shocking:

    Still, glib, sensationalist American bollocks mostly.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Requiem For A Dream is a fantastic film, as is his first film Pi. I agree with Yera that the mothers story is probably the most disturbing and the best because of it, although the bit where you first see the extent of his arm injury is pretty gruesome too. But I wouldn't say it's too disturbing to ever watch again. Although I'll admit to shitting myself when the fridge came alive.

    Incidentally, has anyone seen Inland Empire? If so, did you shit yourself when they had the extreme slow motion of Laura Dern running towards the camera with an absolutely manic look on her face, and then he suddenly speeds the footage up? Lynch films are normally scary in the other sort of way, but I jumped out of my seat at that bit. The image still gives me the shivers, because I think they use the start of it in the trailer.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    z0ma wrote: »
    I take back everything I previously said.

    Requiem for a Dream is the most sickening film i've ever sat and watched. Watching it years ago, I vowed I'd never sit through it again yet after watching it earlier tonight I realise you don't need gore, violence to make a film. Real life is a far scarier thing.

    I'd vow any one single member of this forum to sit through that film and not feel deeply appauled. Certain scenes are just unwatchable. Seriously, felt heart strings move I never knew I had.

    Fucking deep.

    Agreed, bloody good film but no way am i ever watching that again...

    And like Yerascrote said, the mother's story si the most disturbing out of all of them.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yerascrote wrote: »
    Reqiuem for a Dream is definately a film I won't be watching again. Couldn't give a fuck bout the fella, the mother's story was the one that made me freak out. :shocking:

    Still, glib, sensationalist American bollocks mostly.

    Bit harsh on Hubert Selby Junior there - it does suffer from being updated from the late 70's period it was written in. Bear in mind that to Selby Requiem is actually a pretty positive and redemeptive story. Oh and the jail and heroin stuff was based on his own experiences in the 60's that ended up with him doing two months for possession.

    If you, err... enjoyed isn't quite the right word is it? - anyway, if you were moved by Requiem I'd definately suggest tracking down the film of Last Exit to Brooklyn - which is just as overwhelming and has an even stronger story.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    z0ma wrote: »
    I take back everything I previously said.

    Requiem for a Dream is the most sickening film i've ever sat and watched. Watching it years ago, I vowed I'd never sit through it again yet after watching it earlier tonight I realise you don't need gore, violence to make a film. Real life is a far scarier thing.

    I'd vow any one single member of this forum to sit through that film and not feel deeply appauled. Certain scenes are just unwatchable. Seriously, felt heart strings move I never knew I had.

    Fucking deep.

    I bought this off Amazon on the recommendation of a friend. I have watched it once and I doubt I'll watch it again. It's very grim, but very powerful. Perhaps I'll convince myself that rewatching it is a good idea, but at the moment I'm happy to let it gather dust. Fantastic film. I must look out for Pi.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I don't mind most violent films, in fact I ur... 'like' non-sexual violence (I don't mean like, I just can't think of a better word to use).

    I don't like sexual violence i.e. non-consensual sex things etc. I found the scene in the film 'Crash' where the policeman 'finger-fucks' the woman whilst searching her to be horrible.

    Also, and this is a bit embarassing, I find some scenes in like soap operas to be really painful to watch although I don't switch off. Like at Christmas when the Branning family was falling apart and the affair came out and the mum had a go at her little daughter for not telling her as soon as she found out, well I found that so hard to watch. I guess it's because I come from a rather painful 'Eastenders' style family background and it brings up a lot for me. I found it fine to watch the same mother later try to murder her husband though, probably because this isn't something that I have personal experience of.

    I cannot watch horror films though. Not any. I've seen just a few and I literally can't watch them, they scare me so much. I don't mind seeing someone violently attacked but as soon as you add a creepy element to it like someone hiding in their house with some creepy background music I can't watch.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I watched Requiem for a Dream when I was 12 and wasn't bothered by it. Good film though and I could easily watch it again.

    Can't watch The Ring though, that still has me jumping at static TVs and I saw that 5 years ago.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    maeinfin wrote: »
    I watched Requiem for a Dream when I was 12 and wasn't bothered by it. Good film though and I could easily watch it again.

    It wouldn't have had much effect on me aged 12 either, I don't think. It's not that type of film where the younger you are, the more disturbing it is.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I CAN watch it, but I don't like it much. Doesn't faze me, if it's part of a good movie, I just don't need a movie which revolves around really graphic stuff. I am not a big fan of exaggerated violence. Hence I find most Tarantino stuff crap and don't understand all the hype around it.

    I have really bad nerves so horror stuff is a no-no for me too. I was soaking wet of transpiration when I went out of the cinema watching Hostel.

    /e: I'm really afraid to watch requiem for a dream now :nervous: heard it's a must see flick.

    I watched parts of the ring when I was high like a kite. All the people on that party were shitting themselves but I found it funny and amusing, which is rrrreeally weird for me
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I couldn't watch 13 ghosts
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I've put up a poll on www.thesite.org about disturbing films. Everybody go vote. :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I love really scary, gruesome movies but I CAN'T watch It the clown totally freaks me out even thought I'm not scared of clowns.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    maeinfin wrote: »
    I've put up a poll on www.thesite.org about disturbing films. Everybody go vote. :)

    Where's Two Girls One Cup? ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ah, I thought about including Brazialian Scat porn was probably a step too far... although look forward to next weeks 'what's the most disturbing thing you've seen on the web' poll where it'll probably appear ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I can't watch IT and I can't watch any of the first Alien movies either. I watched them when I was young and they scared the shit out of me.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    there were parts of mysterious skin which i found incredbily painful to watch...

    and evil dead i kinda hid in part of that...

    other than that i'll watch pretty much anything...i want to watch the orphan when i get a chance.
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