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Fingered a girl last night...
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Hi, Im 14 and just got home from a caravaning trip this morning.
I got with this girl for the week and it was amazing, and on the last night I decided to take my chances and try and finger her.
She was giving all the signals (I think!) such as when i had my hands on her stomach she was moving her legs further out in an effort to get my hands further down, so I slid my hand down and she didnt stop me.
We had been kissing and feeling eachother before hand so she was wet (unless a pussy is allways like that.)
[By the way we were in a bar/entertainment area at the back on a massive couch on our own-the room was busy but the couch was empty- and she was leaning on me with her legs up spread across the couch. ]
The next bit just happened in a blur and i just felt it and slipped my fingers in a couple of times. I think she was enjoying it because she kept moving around and sort of jerking a little bit.
Then some fool had to come and sit and the couch near us so she tuned over and just said "stop, i dont mind but i dont want to be seen" or something-(could barely understand her accent)
so i have a few questions...
1. Am I too young?
2. Did I do it right (baring in mind it was my first time)?
3. What could i do to make it better?
4. Should I tell anyboody?
Cheers
Josh
I got with this girl for the week and it was amazing, and on the last night I decided to take my chances and try and finger her.
She was giving all the signals (I think!) such as when i had my hands on her stomach she was moving her legs further out in an effort to get my hands further down, so I slid my hand down and she didnt stop me.
We had been kissing and feeling eachother before hand so she was wet (unless a pussy is allways like that.)
[By the way we were in a bar/entertainment area at the back on a massive couch on our own-the room was busy but the couch was empty- and she was leaning on me with her legs up spread across the couch. ]
The next bit just happened in a blur and i just felt it and slipped my fingers in a couple of times. I think she was enjoying it because she kept moving around and sort of jerking a little bit.
Then some fool had to come and sit and the couch near us so she tuned over and just said "stop, i dont mind but i dont want to be seen" or something-(could barely understand her accent)
so i have a few questions...
1. Am I too young?
2. Did I do it right (baring in mind it was my first time)?
3. What could i do to make it better?
4. Should I tell anyboody?
Cheers
Josh
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2) from your point of view, you got your fingers in, so yes. from hers, i couldn't answer.
3) ask her. or the next woman you get to play with in that way
4) your parents
None of us can tell you if you 'did it right..' theres not really a right way or a wrong way to do it.. It sounds like she got pleasure from it and thats the main thing, but if you want to do better - if i was being fingered, i'd probably want you to do a bit more than slipping your fingers in and out.. you heard of the clitoris? But i'll let someone else advise you on technique.
Only tell someone you want to tell, if you want to tell them. You dont have to. And you don't have to keep it a secret.
Yeah I tried finding it...I know its at the top but seen as though we were in a bar I couldnt undo her trousers to have a proper search lol........i was rubbing where i thought it was over her trousers before this though.
well if she seemed to be pleased then i dont think it could have been wrong..
and you can tell who you want, its your life..:D
too make improve just experiment on girls and you will
WTF?
What is exactly..?
Just kidding
1. Nope, I lost my virginity at 13/14.
2. No one 'get's it right' on their first time, well done for making the move, sounds like she enjoyed it. Obviously you could work on it, but that takes time and practise.
3. Did you use two fingers? If not, do next time. Try and have a mixture of rubbing the clitoris and going deeper and curving round...
4. Why the fuck not? lol Tell someone who has more experience, ideally a girl, then you can find out how to be perfect.
1.no.
2.ish
3.practice
4.yeh, post it on an internet forum
I think your a bit late on that suggestion
and as for the question should i tell anyone ? well ya just told the world so don't ask for all the original poster knows "the girl" in registered on these forums too....
I don't want to come across as the boring old fart here but it seems like you spent more time wanting to sample her tasty cakes than talking to her and getting to know the girl, otherwise you might have had a better chance at understanding her accent.
I'm not saying you should have spent weeks courting her before strumming the harp, but you are young and ladies usually find it respectful when you try get to know them better first (although the lady whose bean you flicked didn't seem all that bothered).
1. no I don't think so
2. sounds right to me
3. something I do really seems to make girls go wild. I stick my fingers in there, then take them out, put my fingers up to my nose while looking into the eyes of the girl, then insert my fingers into my nostril. It sounds wrong but girls I've been with seem to find it a turn on that I would do such a thing. ANd if they're happy I'm happy lol.
4. tell your mates who can give you advice. I have a friend who is a bit of an expert in this department and has given me some great tips over the years.
sorry but LOL
YOU'RE NO QUAGMIRE!! IMPOSTER! :mad:
Life and its ever interesting double-standards and random acts of kindness.
Just make sure you don't accidentally give yourself your own Dirty Sanchez.
Lol And again.
No, I don't think you're too young. Just follow your feelings- it can't be wrong, if it feels right. I think, since you're at the start to a long and wonderful era of your life, here is my advice to you on one very important aspect of a womans anathomy.:thumb:
so..
Whet trying to please a girl (in your case) with your fingers it is very important to 'find' the clitoris.
It is a sensitive sexual organ which is generally called the miracle button or the clitoris. Similar to a male's penis, the clitoris is an organ that is intertwined with numerous nerve endings and by stimulating this part most women reach orgasm easierly (from: Sexation.info).
The clitoris is located at the top of the inner vaginal lips and it is surrounded by the outer (larger) vaginal lips. It is a fairly small sexual organ (approxiamtely as large as a peanut) and its shape and size increase differently during stimulation. It is surrounded by a thin membrane (less visible in some women), which moves backward during arousal – similar to penis.
As already said, this is a very sensitive organ and it responds to different types of stimuli - rubbing, kissing, licking, ... Some women's clitoris is so sensitive that direct stimulation is too painful and unpleasant for them. Sometimes this may also happen if arousal is too strong. You have to observe her reaction and experiment.
Source: http://www.sexation.info/en/extra/sexy-advice/clanek/vse-o-scegetavku/
With kind regards,
E
Number 4 is a joke right lol?
1 - no
2 - girls like different things.
3 - ask her how she likes it
4 - no
listen to what the others have said here. it cannot be stressed enough how you must be responsible about sex. it isnt only you doing the act. be concerned with the feelings and wefare of the girl. talk to her if you can. get to know her.
Haha Damn beat me to it!
1. Am I too young? Not for that but no need to rush things
2. Did I do it right (baring in mind it was my first time)? Yes, don't get tips from porno tho some birds don't wanna be fisted
3. What could i do to make it better?
4. Should I tell anyboody? Yeah brag about it to mates and next time do the 'smell my finger' joke just don't get caught!
You could get fruit + veg and wave it around in some sort of sexual maner. They did that in the Naked Gun If you've seen any of those old movies