Complicated

Former Member

My life is so complex...and I keep changing my thoughts.
Recently I claimed that I didn't really care for the whole "Must be in love to have sex" thing...now, a few days later, I'm re-thinking that. I'm not saying you have to be married, no siree, but I think that maybe there should be some aspect of "care" in the relationship?
Yes, I have found the light! Haha...well, more like a guy that made me realize a few things...
Okay, I make no sense...
Anyone's thoughts on how on earth I changed my mind so quicky?

Former Member

I think that true love is something that very few (if any) people ever realise the ENTIRE magnitude and effects thereof. Throughout life we gradually learn more and more though, so perhaps this is the first step towards your education or understanding about love? At any rate, i wish you all the best on this little journey...remember, it's not the destination it's the ride that matters <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

Former Member

Why is this complicated? <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

Former Member

I honestly think there are two types of sex, The type I enjoy with my beautiful girlfriend and the type I enjoyed before I met her. They are completley different and non-connected. "Making love" and "Shagging" when I have been with a girl I just met it is pure lust and animal instinct SEX !!!, When I am with my girlfriend, There is caring, Emotion, Love, A willingness to please each other. I believe once you can seperate these two, You can understand the differences and what they mean to you. PS. You can never have the two at the same time, If you are cheating on your partner, You do not love her/him, therefore you are not making love to her/him, you are back to "Shagging"