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Boyfirend's size scare me

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
So my boyfriend and I have been dating for some time now. Today is the first time that we done anything sexual and it was just me sucking his dick. Nothing more.
Problem is I love everything about him until today. I was in the tornado shelter at the mall with him. I undone his pants and out falls his penis and it was enormous. Honestly I was scared that he might try and have sex with me cause I am not a pain loving kinda girl. He was at least 8.5 inches from what I could tell but that was not the problem for the most part it was how damn thick he was.

What do you do when you have already fallen for a guy but when it comes to sex he is so big that it scares you into not wanting to do anything with him? What do you tell him? I don't want to make him leave me or anything.

Help Please...

Any Advice...

Will it always hurt or will it not hurt as much or at all if I do it with him enough? I don't want to be loose

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Relax.

    That's the only advice I can give. Tell him not to be too rough at first, because it will take some getting used to. My ex was BIG and I was never totally relaxed so it was always a bit uncomfortable. If it hurts just tell him to stop, simple as.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    lube ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It might hurt a bit for the first few weeks, but your body should get used to it.


    Just try getting kinky for the pain
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    plus don't over estimate his size its easy to get scared I was told I am huge but I know I am not and thought I was bigger than I am (but she still never went all the way with me)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Is that you laura?

    lol




    had to do that :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    To the OP:

    if his scares you, you should check out mine, like a beast in the night :flirt:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    My ex was big. Just tell him to be gentle and take it slow at first. You will get used to him. Oh and try and avoid certain positions at first (girl on top for me was a no no) cos it used to hurt too much
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Lucasinio wrote: »
    To the OP:

    if his scares you, you should check out mine, like a beast in the night :flirt:

    What? So ugly?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Teagan wrote: »
    What? So ugly?
    :O How rude!

    No, not at all. Its a masterpiece, like a work of art.

    What it does is like a beast in the night...:naughty:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Lucasinio wrote: »
    :O How rude!

    No, not at all. Its a masterpiece, like a work of art.

    What it does is like a beast in the night...:naughty:

    What? Stand on a hill, silhouetted against a lightning lit sky, howling into the wind and rain?

    ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ripping open bin bags, slaughtering sheep
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    g_angel wrote: »
    What? Stand on a hill, silhouetted against a lightning lit sky, howling into the wind and rain?

    ;)

    Lol, youve captured the mood perfectly :hyper:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    SuzyCreamcheese wrote: »
    .....sheep......

    Sorry im not Welsh:p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Lucasinio wrote: »
    Sorry im not Welsh:p

    No, but you are deluded.


    Mine's fucking huge.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thunderstruck wrote: »
    No, but you are deluded.


    Mine's fucking huge.


    :crying:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    get over it!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I suggest that if you don't have anything helpful to say please don't post.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah my gf has the same problem;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    LufcMatty wrote: »
    Yeah my gf has the same problem;)

    Well i suggest you stop her looking at other guys then :chin:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Lucasinio wrote: »
    :O How rude!

    No, not at all. Its a masterpiece, like a work of art.

    What it does is like a beast in the night...:naughty:


    I have a big dick too. I actually only have one leg, the other is my dick in a shoe.
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