coping with Jealously

Former Member

Hi guys, heres the thing

Iv just started seeing this girl who I really really like:thumb:

Thing is iv learned quite a lot about her past and if im being blunt she's been around quite a bit. I always have quite a problem with being jealous in realationships, its something that I really need to sort out.

Im old enough to realise that its stupid to think a girl could only ever have one lover and to be honest Iv had my mistakes too:rolleyes: . But I cant seem to get thoughts out of my head etc. Im beginning to think this may be a sign of insecurity or low self esteem or the fact that iv been cheated on before.

I dont want this to ruin our realationship and I want to get better and to be more mature about it but I just cant:crying: .

Any ideas?

Former Member

It's natural to get a bit jealous and paranoid from time to time in a relationship but if you have absolute trust in your OH then it won't be too much a problem. :thumb:

Former Member

go in to the relationship, see howit goes, if it gets to the point where u and your partner are getting worried about it then talk to her about it.

if it ever got real serious you may need counsaling, however wait and see what happens

Former Member

i get jealous too, my girlfriend is quite a friendly and flirty person and has plenty of male friends a few of which fancy her, i find it tricky to not get jealous as i'm also nervous about ruining the relationship, i trust her 100% but just hate other guys sniffing round her, especially if they know she has a boyfriend, i know i should be flattered that my girl is popular, but cos i have a few self esteem problems it just makes me nervous.