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Irrational facebook jealousy
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no... This means as much as the fact that my poo is brown.
i'd be gutted if my gf said such thing about people i know, but i know she wouldnt, and i wouldnt do that to her.
pathetic behaviour really, if you're that worried about it, talk to him not slag people off to us.
Eek. Katchika, calm down and take a few deep breaths. It's stupidly easy to get wound up by facebook but as you say it is a completely irrational reaction and to ber honest yes, you probably are imagining things which aren't true.
Are these girls really slag bags? I doubt they are, most likely they're just having a bit of a laugh without really considering how it will affect other readers.
The kinds of messages people write on facebook walls are exactly the kinds of things people say in text messages. The difference is that because it's so public we tend to think it means more. It usually doesn't.
There will always be annoying things about social networks, but the key is to take most things with a pinch of salt and remember you're the one who has your boy's affections in real life.
*hugs*
I've been there. But seriously, don't let a little message on facebook ruin your day. You're stronger than that, you know you are. It's good to acknowledge that other people do use language like "love ya" a lot. It's a shame you can't see her other messages to people as they're probably exactly the same - it's no doubt just the way she is
I've always made a point about never allowing a current girlfriend become a friend and never looking at their page, it's just bad news.
I know i'd get jealous if I saw messages from guys, so I don't look because they'd be harmless anyway, so no point in getting worried.
Surprisingly most girls are ok with me not accepting them as friends too.
Facebook is a damn sight better than Faceparty. All I got from FP was constant harrassment from mail-order bride scams!
I hear that things like Facebook cause loads of break-ups because people get so jealous. The way I see it is it's unlikely that you have the same circle of friends as your bloke (At least not all of them will know both of you) and so there are bound to be people you don't know leaving messages for each of you.
Try not to get too obsessive about it because you're probably winding yourself up over nothing.