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Sex in a bed?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Being young and living with my parents still i wonder where other people have sex. I generally have sex in the park or in a sometimes (rarely)in a sneaky way when the parents are out. Is it odd to mainly be having sex outdoors? I even lost my virginity in the park. Ive only had sex in a bed about 2 or 3 times! Where do u do it? Im really curious!!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I don't think it's odd to have sex outside. It's quite exciting in a way because there's always the possiblity that you'll get caught.

    If you can't do it in a bed for whatever reason then I think(if it's alright with your partner) it's fine to do it in the open air.

    Why don't you close your eyes and re-invent me?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    We do it mostly in a bed, it doesnt bother us if my parents are in cos they never come upstairs anyway after a certain time. Other times we'll do it on the couch.
    Most adventurous place so far is either the ocean or a changing room at center parcs!!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    the ocean?

    tried swimmin pool, not enuff friction, so hence it was shite

    Don't knock masturbation, it's sex with someone I love <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/smilie/ukliam2.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Used to do it in bed but then events meant parents no longer allow boyfriend in the house at the minute.
    So, nowadays I have, local pub toilet, fields, park, car, local library garden! Sex is much better outdoors and I love it in the car. No, I dont think it's odd at all. If it is, you're definitely not on your own!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by LovelyLisa:
    Used to do it in bed but then events meant parents no longer allow boyfriend in the house at the minute.

    Presume you got caught then?

    Outdoor sex is the best. Having your own house and being able to use each room loses it's appeal after a while.

    The thrill of being in public is what makes outdoor sex special.

    "Mad Lizzie Crumb's blind cobblers thumbs"

    <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/smilie/flip.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Man Of Kent:
    Presume you got caught then?
    nope, just split up and got back together much to parents disgust who'd prefer us apart!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    why does the title of this topic make me laff??

    I'll be sitting on top when it all goes wrong again
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Whowhere:
    We do it mostly in a bed, it doesnt bother us if my parents are in cos they never come upstairs anyway after a certain time. Other times we'll do it on the couch.
    Most adventurous place so far is either the ocean or a changing room at center parcs!!!

    When u have sex when your rents r in, do u keep your clothes on?? Me and my bf do coz many a time we have had to quickly stop as sum1 comes upstairs! Doesnt sex with clothes on really piss u off? I dont like it, but we never really get the chance to do it properly, in the flesh! lol

    I have never had sex outdoors - I would love to tho, just never really had the chance, and again surely this would keeping your clothes on!! Only ever had it in a bed, oh yeah, and the living room floor! lol thats sad innit!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Turtle:
    why does the title of this topic make me laff??

    "sex in the bed...
    and the little one said (that's me)
    roll over"

    ?? nope, why does it make you laff?

    Don't knock masturbation, it's sex with someone I love <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/smilie/ukliam2.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by MasterDevilish:
    "sex in the bed...
    and the little one said (that's me)
    roll over"

    ?? nope, why does it make you laff?


    still n ot sure, tbh


    I'll be sitting on top when it all goes wrong again
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    the_Paranoid_bunnythe_Paranoid_bunny Posts: 487 Listening Ear
    Originally posted by Turtle:
    still n ot sure, tbh

    at least it's more practical than "sex in a bottle" <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    ive only had sex in beds pretty much too. both my boyfriends have been long distance so we've had to stay at each other's houses. and my parents let them share my room once they got used to the idea <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; and so they dont come in my room late at night, sometimes they knock and come in which is kinda dodgy <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/eek.gif"&gt; but once theyre in bed its okay. no probs <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; and they dont come u p in the morning untilw e're like officially up and stuff so thats okay too <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    jsut realised ive written this in teh present tense. weird.

    "That which does not kill us makes us stronger."
    ~ Nietzsche
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by BagPuss:
    When u have sex when your rents r in, do u keep your clothes on?? Me and my bf do coz many a time we have had to quickly stop as sum1 comes upstairs! Doesnt sex with clothes on really piss u off? I dont like it, but we never really get the chance to do it properly, in the flesh! lol

    I have never had sex outdoors - I would love to tho, just never really had the chance, and again surely this would keeping your clothes on!! Only ever had it in a bed, oh yeah, and the living room floor! lol thats sad innit!


    We do have to keep our top halves on, and now that we'll only be able to see each other in the evenings and saturdays we'll have to be clothed a lot more :-( which means hpefully we can go outside a lot more. We have had to stop a few times and it is so frustrating grrr, i can wait till i have a car!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i love sex out side but have never done it in a ppub toilet though much to my dissapointment my bf has limited adventurness (if thats even a word)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    you should definitely try the pub toilet one fairypie! even if we did get a telling off afterwards! it was fun!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I can heartily recommend swimming pools, providing you can be slow and sensuous about it it can be fantastic...
    Even thou you have to watch out for people under the water who might be getting a free porn show.... <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;


    Spade
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Note to self: Avoid swimmingpools! Not only fish have sex in the water..


    Hmm.. as for me: bed, floor, couch, backgarden..

    dodgy
    single again
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by BornDodgy:
    Hmm.. as for me: bed, floor, couch, backgarden..

    ...washing machine, frige, wardrobe, car, cinema, aeroplane, forest, shed, tent, golf course, shopping centre, elevator...

    God, BornDodgy, you're not very experienced, are you?
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