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I really like this girl!

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
i really like this girl at school, we friends and we've been that for a long time!
shes 14 and i'm 15, the main problem is that this is my last year in this school and if i don't tell her i might never see her again!
What should i do?:confused:

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    my opinion

    that's the worst when you are best friends with someone that you secretly really like!! from a girls opinion i think you should tell her... i have had some guy friends that have told me they like me more than friends and one of them i really had a crush on..so you never know... and considering that you are moving and you don't tell her, you may regret it forever!! hopefully i have helped you some...good luck!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    thats really helpful, at school today it seemed like another guy from her year liked her as well! =[!

    btw i'm not moving, i'm going to college!
    buts its the same cos i live along way from her!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    right!
    thanks for your help
    here goes, i'm emailing her now cos i'm not gonna see her for a couple of days and i'll lose my confidence if i don't do it now!

    I'll let you know how it goes on this thread!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    aww, good luck! *crosses fingers and toes*
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    thanks that means alot!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    :thumb: :thumb:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    you will probably find that as you go to college you will be more independant and be able to see her more even though you live away from her
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I hope so, I havn't seen her yet to talk to her!
    so i messaged her on myspace!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    curly_boy wrote: »
    I hope so, I havn't seen her yet to talk to her!
    so i messaged her on myspace!

    atleast you are showing her that you are interested, everybody likes a bit of myspace flirtation!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    to be honest its probably better to talk to her in person than on myspace? nothing wrong with a bit of online flirting but for the real deal, go see her man!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    phoenix24 wrote: »
    to be honest its probably better to talk to her in person than on myspace? nothing wrong with a bit of online flirting but for the real deal, go see her man!

    Its easier to type then talk though.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    good luck!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Good luck.

    Better to know where you stand now than regret it for the rest of your life. :thumb:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well i told her and we talked today, and boy do i feel stupid!:banghead:
    shes already going out with someone! :crying:

    We're still gonna be friends though and we know that we'll be there for each other!
    I'm glad that i told her how i feel!
    Thanks for all your help, it meant alot to me!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm sorry that she already has someone and you had to find out that way... but its really good that she knows and you guys will be friends... but when you go away to college don't let your feelings for her stop you from finding someone else because well .. she is taken... but im sure you guys will be great frineds for now.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yeah! I'm pleased i told her
    I'm not gonna let my feelings for her get in the way, well i'm gonna try!

    Thanks everyone!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Unlucky bruv
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    Indrid ColdIndrid Cold Posts: 16,688 Skive's The Limit
    Sorry to hear, but that happens... Especially to me and someone else I know.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Indrid Cold wrote: »
    Sorry to hear, but that happens... Especially to me and someone else I know.

    Well Me for one!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hey i know its hard not to wish for her bf to fall off a rollercoaster and break every bone in his body (it can happen!!!:)) but be there for her and you never know they could split up and you can pick up the pieces
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