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Hi,
There's this girl I like, even though i've only known her for a few days! The thing is i'm not sure what to do, because apparrently about 5 guys all fancy her as well, and i've been told by a few of her friends that she isn't interested in any of them. Her and her friends sometimes joke about the amount of guys fancying her and she doesn't really seem to care, or be interested. I've been told by one of her friends that she likes quiet guys and stuff, which i am. I don't really get any signs from her. Most of my chatting to her has been over MSN as when we are in a group together we rarely speak to each other directly. She also seems quiet amongst people she doesn't know v well which could account for this though, or perhaps she just doesn't like me.
In short, i'm not sure what to do. I certainly don't want to add my name to the list of guys who she knows fancy her but who she doesn't fancy back, especially when i'd have to see her around, and especially when i'm friends with her friends. But then I don't want to sit by and do nothing when there could be a chance. I just wondered if there is any way of perhaps getting a sign from her, or something. I very rarely see her on her own, she usually with her mates so I can't really get to her... any ideas?
There's this girl I like, even though i've only known her for a few days! The thing is i'm not sure what to do, because apparrently about 5 guys all fancy her as well, and i've been told by a few of her friends that she isn't interested in any of them. Her and her friends sometimes joke about the amount of guys fancying her and she doesn't really seem to care, or be interested. I've been told by one of her friends that she likes quiet guys and stuff, which i am. I don't really get any signs from her. Most of my chatting to her has been over MSN as when we are in a group together we rarely speak to each other directly. She also seems quiet amongst people she doesn't know v well which could account for this though, or perhaps she just doesn't like me.
In short, i'm not sure what to do. I certainly don't want to add my name to the list of guys who she knows fancy her but who she doesn't fancy back, especially when i'd have to see her around, and especially when i'm friends with her friends. But then I don't want to sit by and do nothing when there could be a chance. I just wondered if there is any way of perhaps getting a sign from her, or something. I very rarely see her on her own, she usually with her mates so I can't really get to her... any ideas?
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All I can think of...for I am in virtually the same situation, mate.
I was just as clueless, but a girl fiend of mine told me to: be VERY subtle, and: be yourself.
best of luck.