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Wat A Night!!
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Ok, here we go, little bit of a rant cause im feeling so good bout myself for the first time in ages, since breaking up with the ex i have gone off the rails a little which i think is normal.
Well i met a girl 2 Wednesday's ago who caught my eye and i didnt do anything, well i found her on the good old Bebo, and added her, well she added me to msn messenger last thursday.
i thought she wasnt single so i didnt really do much in the way to talking to her or anything but then on friday night she said she was single and we started talking bout how i was single.
well we swapped numbers friday night and we been txting each other ever since. It comes to saturday morning and she was txting things that felt to me that she was hinting she wanted to go out for the night to see how things go.
So me being the lovely gentleman i am asked her out for the night. well we went out last night and i tell you what i have never found anyone quite like her, she was fresh, unique, funny, someone who you could have a proper conversation with.
Well we was sat down most of the night and talking when she asked if i wanted to get up to dance, well i aint normally a dancer but i thought why not, we was on dancefloor and we kissed and it was different, it felt good, warm kinda feeling, now i dont know if i am becoming soppy in my old age but i got butterflys and stuff.
I have never ever felt so comftable with anyone in my life, just feels good being with her. Well after club had shut we went back to her house to have a drink and that, i didnt want to sleep with her on the first night because i wanted to show her thats not wat i was after. Well we laid on her bed and we was kissing and cuddling and stuff and we both fell asleep, this didnt bother me because it was different to when i take a one night stand home.
We both woke up and we was just laid in bed for most of the day and that kssing, cuddling, watching tv, having a laugh and not once did it past my mind to sleep with her. i then go home and get a txt message saying that She dont know why but she feels so comftable with me and that she really likes my cuddles and kisses and i make her feel good about herself, i also got told that no lad ever made her feel like that.
Now what i am thinking is, do i give it a go cause she has indicated she wants to or will people judge me for moving on from my ex of a year and half so quick, we been split up bout 8 weeks. I really do like this girl.
Sorry bout my rant lol.
Well i met a girl 2 Wednesday's ago who caught my eye and i didnt do anything, well i found her on the good old Bebo, and added her, well she added me to msn messenger last thursday.
i thought she wasnt single so i didnt really do much in the way to talking to her or anything but then on friday night she said she was single and we started talking bout how i was single.
well we swapped numbers friday night and we been txting each other ever since. It comes to saturday morning and she was txting things that felt to me that she was hinting she wanted to go out for the night to see how things go.
So me being the lovely gentleman i am asked her out for the night. well we went out last night and i tell you what i have never found anyone quite like her, she was fresh, unique, funny, someone who you could have a proper conversation with.
Well we was sat down most of the night and talking when she asked if i wanted to get up to dance, well i aint normally a dancer but i thought why not, we was on dancefloor and we kissed and it was different, it felt good, warm kinda feeling, now i dont know if i am becoming soppy in my old age but i got butterflys and stuff.
I have never ever felt so comftable with anyone in my life, just feels good being with her. Well after club had shut we went back to her house to have a drink and that, i didnt want to sleep with her on the first night because i wanted to show her thats not wat i was after. Well we laid on her bed and we was kissing and cuddling and stuff and we both fell asleep, this didnt bother me because it was different to when i take a one night stand home.
We both woke up and we was just laid in bed for most of the day and that kssing, cuddling, watching tv, having a laugh and not once did it past my mind to sleep with her. i then go home and get a txt message saying that She dont know why but she feels so comftable with me and that she really likes my cuddles and kisses and i make her feel good about herself, i also got told that no lad ever made her feel like that.
Now what i am thinking is, do i give it a go cause she has indicated she wants to or will people judge me for moving on from my ex of a year and half so quick, we been split up bout 8 weeks. I really do like this girl.
Sorry bout my rant lol.
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Sounds like you've met a good one, you really have no idea how jealous I am
Yeah i was thinking that but so much has gone on between me and the ex and i dont want her to start believing some of the tripe that has come out the ex's mouth which has cause rumours around my town.
At the moment it just feels too good to be true if u know what i mean!
:yes: i had been finished with my ex of 2 and a half years for only 5 weeks when i started seeing my new man
seriously go for it, she sounds really nice and although i dont know you, from what you've said about not wanting to sleep with her etc, it sounds like you deserve her
Go for it, stuff your ex, you broke up for a reason so don't let the reason hold you back from enjoying life.
-Jess-
If you don't feel like waiting then don't wait, life's too short to worry about what anyone else thinks or feels.
Its so good when you click with someone so don't throw it away because of what others say and that
Good luck with it all and fair play for getting over your ex and that
You are here for a short time, make the most of it... if someone else has a problem wit hthat then it's their problem, not yours.
:yes: couldnt have put it better
I agree with this man ^ for once
'bout time you woke up to the fact that I'm usually right
Wouldn't go that far....stranger things have happened tho. :razz:
Yeah, next there'll be dwarf/glue/hoover incidents....
Can't see in myself
your ex is your ex but this girl could be the future