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my best friend eric is a cute, funny, smart, and very sweet. for a while i've wanted to be with him, but he didn't want to jepordize(sp?) our friendship.
im currently with one of his good friends Patrick. about a week ago, Eric was asking me waht turns a girl on. I just told him what I like since i can't speak for every woman in the world. then he asked me if we could do some "stuff" before he left(we are both moving). some sexual shit, yknow?
i told him yes at first because i wouldnt be with patrick by then(i have to break up with him since im moving), but then i thought of the possiblities of Patrick finding out that me and Eric fooled around. i wrote eric a note the next day explaining why.
a couple of nights later, i asked him why he picked me out of all the girls he knows. he said "because you know what you're talking about and you're not a ho and you wouldn't make fun of me if i mess up."
in a way i take it as a compliment, but he kinda had his chance 2 weeks ago. i had another friend who wanted to lose his virginity to me, because we are close and he trusts me, but i told him no, because he's like my brother. i still like Eric a lot, but i am with one of his best friends, and i think Patrick would be very hurt by that.
WHAT SHOULD I DO?
im currently with one of his good friends Patrick. about a week ago, Eric was asking me waht turns a girl on. I just told him what I like since i can't speak for every woman in the world. then he asked me if we could do some "stuff" before he left(we are both moving). some sexual shit, yknow?
i told him yes at first because i wouldnt be with patrick by then(i have to break up with him since im moving), but then i thought of the possiblities of Patrick finding out that me and Eric fooled around. i wrote eric a note the next day explaining why.
a couple of nights later, i asked him why he picked me out of all the girls he knows. he said "because you know what you're talking about and you're not a ho and you wouldn't make fun of me if i mess up."
in a way i take it as a compliment, but he kinda had his chance 2 weeks ago. i had another friend who wanted to lose his virginity to me, because we are close and he trusts me, but i told him no, because he's like my brother. i still like Eric a lot, but i am with one of his best friends, and i think Patrick would be very hurt by that.
WHAT SHOULD I DO?
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