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do i care?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
oh my god!! my ex-bf just sent me a message at 4.30 this morning saying "me and nat were shagging and she had 10 to 15 orgasms, you should have heard her moaning it was well funny"

does it look like a give a fucking toss about their sex life? <IMG SRC="mad.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="mad.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="mad.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Right.......
    do we care either? <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    im so pissed off <IMG SRC="mad.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="mad.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="mad.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="mad.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="mad.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="mad.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    So you are bothered then?
    By the way, just too cheer you up- check your signature for a spelling mistake.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by dizzy blonde babe:
    [QB]"me and nat were shagging and she had 10 to 15 orgasms, you should have heard her moaning it was well funny"
    QB]

    Your ex finds girls having orgasms funny?!? <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
    If he finds that he is laughing at his girlfriend when they have sex, they may be doing something wrong.
    Sex isn't meant to be a comedy!
    (Unless its one of those Oh-so-funny-but-sad porn movies on 5)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What were you hoping to achieve by posting this? Do you want me to beat this 'Nat' bird up or something? What is there to discuss on the matter?
    <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i posted this cos im so pissed off and i needed to get it off my chest. <IMG SRC="mad.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="mad.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="mad.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Dont reply. Delete the message. Delete his number so you dont feel tempted to reply. When you get a new phone dont tell him the new number. That will show him just how much you dont give a shit about his sex life.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by dizzy blonde babe:
    <STRONG>i posted this cos im so pissed off and i needed to get it off my chest.</STRONG>

    You dont give a f**k
    But your pissed off

    Slight contradiction methinks <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    we decided a couple of weeks ago that wed be mates. but i just cant handle him talking about his girlfriend and their sex life.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Narcotic:
    <STRONG>

    You dont give a f**k
    But your pissed off

    Slight contradiction methinks <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"></STRONG>

    when i said i dont give a fuck i meant do i need to no!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    its hard to stay friends with someone you still love! proven by the fact that your affected by him having sex with his new girlfriend. If you didnt care about him you wouldnt care about his sex life. Ignore and delete the message, and move on!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i dont want to let go, we split up in july last year, but i cant stop thinking about him.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    trust me he sounds like the sort of person you dont need in your life. Look at him for gods sake, he's sending mesages to his ex about his present sex life! he just sounds so pathetically sad and calculating. find someone else!

    and what would the new g/f think if she knew he was texting you? your better off without him.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What was he hoping to achieve by telling you that? Does he know that you still care? If he does, that was a very cruel thing to do, which begs the question--why would you want to remain friends with someone who can be so insensitive? Has he done thing like this before?

    Hopefully this will be more constructive than some of the other shite that was posted. <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Like Narcotic said - check your sig.

    Incase you still haven't noticed you've put 'but' instead of 'buy'. <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    You just wanted to get it off your chest? Right. You have. Forget him or tell him to shut up. End of.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    his girlfriend knows, but shes only 14 and im 18, and we had a bit of a text disagrement a few weeks ago so now shes scared of me, so she wont do anything to stop us texting, cos she knows he wont. a few days ago he was telling me he still loves me.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Scarlett:
    <STRONG>What was he hoping to achieve by telling you that? Does he know that you still care? If he does, that was a very cruel thing to do, which begs the question--why would you want to remain friends with someone who can be so insensitive? Has he done thing like this before?
    </STRONG>

    hes done it all, i put a post in relationships why does he do it about him.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    The nature of the text and the words he used imply that he was trying to get a reaction from you. And if you do send back "do i care" he would probably come back with something even more stupid. Just ignore the message and delete his number, for your sake!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by dizzy blonde babe:so she wont do anything to stop us texting, cos she knows he wont.QUOTE]

    well she sounds just as sad as your ex. What kind of girlfriend puts up with her boyfriend texting his ex details of their love life? they sound made for each other and you made a lucky escape
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You still aint changed your signature
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    it is hard to let go of ex's especially if u had been with them for ages, mayb just ignoring his texts and calls wuld be better, not neccessarily forever but dont contact him untill your over him and with someone else.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i dont know if i want to ignore his messages cos him and his gf have been spliting up every few days recently so there coulb be a chance for us to get back together.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by dizzy blonde babe:
    <STRONG>his girlfriend knows, but shes only 14 and im 18, and we had a bit of a text disagrement a few weeks ago so now shes scared of me, so she wont do anything to stop us texting, cos she knows he wont. a few days ago he was telling me he still loves me.</STRONG>

    Just text him back saying if he sends you any pathetic messages like that, you will hand your phone over to the police and get the wanker done for statutory rape! Simple As!
    <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Why would you still want to be with someone who's shagging a 14 year old? The mind boggles.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hes only 16
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    and if he does it to her (sends texts about her to other women) whats to stop the ass doing it again?
    Dont be his rebound either!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    fuck sorry for the double entry!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by dizzy blonde babe:
    <STRONG>hes only 16</STRONG>

    Dont matter if hes 16, when hes 17 shell be 15 and it will still be illegal same way!
    <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by butterfly girl:
    <STRONG>fuck sorry for the double entry!</STRONG>

    You could always delete one of them.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Daisychainthing:
    <STRONG>

    You could always delete one of them.</STRONG>

    yeah cheers i have, sorry the newbie didnt know such things existed, cheers.
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