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The current situation between me and my gf is really starting to frustrate me, the problem is we dont have a sex life at all, it feels like she is happy that we never make love, we been together for a year and 6 months and its getting to the point now were its not happening that im thinking of going somewhere else for a session, I dont want to do that because i would hate to hurt her, she does mean the world to me but i cant live like this any longer, im 21 and it feels like that i have got a sex life of a 70 year old.
I was wondering how people would approach this situation, any help much appreciated
Cheers, :thumb:
The current situation between me and my gf is really starting to frustrate me, the problem is we dont have a sex life at all, it feels like she is happy that we never make love, we been together for a year and 6 months and its getting to the point now were its not happening that im thinking of going somewhere else for a session, I dont want to do that because i would hate to hurt her, she does mean the world to me but i cant live like this any longer, im 21 and it feels like that i have got a sex life of a 70 year old.
I was wondering how people would approach this situation, any help much appreciated
Cheers, :thumb:
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If it comes down to it, maybe youre not right for each other.
I want to sort this out before i lose her or she runs into the arms of another man who can give her what she needs :banghead:
I do feel for you, but try and be patient with her if you want to fight for your relationship. Good luck
I am sure Jim V has a perfectly good sex life ...
:yes: agreed
It may not be coming to an end, you need to set the mood for having sex, make it more romantic. you may not have notice but she may just want more then sex, showing her a bit of love, may spice up your love life, or evan try and make it fun.
I was in your girlfriends situation, ove i dont know her thoughts, but i hope this helps. xx
the way she sees it? maybe she feels vulnerable afterwards? do you comfort her afterwards or smile and walk away like you've just abused her [/QUOTE]
I agree, she needs to be shown shes loved, be more romantic.