If you need urgent support, call 999 or go to your nearest A&E. To contact our Crisis Messenger (open 24/7) text THEMIX to 85258.
Read the community guidelines before posting ✨
Options
Foreplay For the boys?
Former Member
Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
what type of things do you do in terms of foreplay for a boy? i had my first time with my bf a few months ago and wasnt quite sure what to and what not to do, we are planning on spending the night together again next week so i need some advice please, sorry if this post seems abit crzy.:o
0
Comments
Wank him slowly with both hands while trying to maintain eye contact...works better if your on your kneels and he's standing...but still works well in bed.
Carrying on from wanking.... give him a blow job. If you've not done that before and want to try it...Just put he's cock in your mouth and you don't even need to do much 1st time. Your bf will be pleased your willing to give it ago! NO NEED TO SWALLOW 1ST TIME
Tit wank...will work well with baby oil etc.
Try playing with balls....if your feeling up to it try sucking/lick he's nuts if your doing BJ. Same as BJ you can't go wrong...just remember NO TEETH/BITING
Talking naughty is turn on and can be good build up to foreplay. But at end of the day you shouldn't do anything your not comfortable doing. Whatever you do for your bf he's gonna be pleased so you can't really fail!
Fuck I'm horny and in need of beer
Another trick is to use mouthwash/ice cube before giving him a BJ.
You know, TBH, when I'm horny it's not beer which satisfies me...
mouthwash-like ice cubes really, its just a different sensation.
I believe that it's the alcohol (or something) in mouthwash which has a great sensation... mints work well too, just not as good...
You could try a sexy strip... better still don't wear underwear and tell him that you aren't when you meet him - trust me it will drive him wild all evening...
myt jus do that lol, we are going cinema and for a meal before we go back to his for the night so i think i mite just send a lil text while we are on our way to the resturant.
You put your right arm in
You put your right arm out
You put your right arm in
And you shake it all about
You do the hokey pokey and you turn around
That's what it's all about
HE'LL LOVE IT...HONESTLY.
As far as blowjobs go, when you're in the process of giving him one look up at him from time to time.
I think it definetley adds something to it and it's good to know that she's enjoying it too and not just chugging away like a machine cause she feels she has to.
and don't pretend to be enjoying it if you're not - they're crafty beasts and they can always tell. do something that actually makes you moan in pleasure rather than doing a bad pornstar imitation, because the best tip I was ever given is that blokes enjoy it when you enjoy yourself.
Ha some blokes do tho...SOME WILL NOT! Personally, I always get freaked out when birds put fingers near there. It's like oi love, NO!!, things don't go up there for me!...I don't wanna put my cock or fingers up yours, so please leave mine alone!
:yes:
I dont think you need to do anything special. I guess playing with icecubes and mouthwash might be fun for an occasional thing or a one off, but its certainly not something to be faffed with every time you want a shag.
I think things you both like, just to get in the mood. back rubs, kisses, touches,
thats what I generally think of as foreplay.
Are blow jobs considered foreplay usually. I always think of them as a type of sex.
well do you consider licking pussy out to be a type of sex or as foreplay?
you sound like you have a few ideas on the subject anyway, so just go with the flow, see what he likes and equally as important, what it is that you like and just enjoy yourselves.
happy fucking :P
Basically, go with what you feel - some guys like having their whole body kissed following downwards til you hit the money, but then still kiss and lick around the area and balls - he'll be dying for you to go down on him but patiendce is the key - then whilst wanking him slowly push your mouth down the shaft with a firm but not too hard suck, working your way to going faster and occasionally looking up into his eyes - you may feel a bit like a porn star the first time or so but you'll know instantly if he's enjoying it.
As for an earlier thread - ice cubes are v good but are too much as a regular thing, plus it'll seem regimented "Who's getting the cubes tonight darling, you or I?" Also there's no element of surprise.
Another couple of things to surprise him with, one nightwear a pair of crotchless thongs. Tell your guy when you've left the house and maybe let him check - the anticipation will be like foreplay itself - also it gives the added bonus of he might want to go down on you too so you both benefit - keep them on throughout because sometimes it's what you can't see that does it for him and there's an element of naughtiness about it.
Hope this helps!:razz:
Also another trick is to put it in your mouth, the whole way, then really, really slowly draw it out, sucking & licking and stuff - just really tease him - at the end of that, try flicking your tongue over the tip lightly, and then without much warning, thrust him back into your mouth (really trying to think of a way to explain that but can't!) quickly as you can...just make sure you really do cover your teeth with your lips as your doing it! After the slow teasing the quick motion should drive him crazy.
Where do I learn this stuff?
Agreed - I read that and thought the same - I read a magazine with a bunch of guys being interviewed and they said how much they really didn't like it.
I think that might be one of those "each to their own" things - not a universal turn on I dont think.