If you need urgent support, call 999 or go to your nearest A&E. To contact our Crisis Messenger (open 24/7) text THEMIX to 85258.
Read the community guidelines before posting ✨
Options
another update on creepy man at college
Former Member
Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
If you didn't read my last topic about this then to not go into a long story..I was being pretty much sexually harassed at college by a 43 year old bloke. Anyway...I havent seen him because I've had time off and he hasn't been in much. The last time I saw him was my exam on Monday when he was seated in front of me. :rolleyes: Damn alphabetical order..anyway he looks behind and says 'Don't copy me! Haha!!'. I just looked at him dumbfounded because at that point I'm prepared in my head on what to say to him if he says anything unacceptable but I can't really say much to that can I.
Anywho opened upto some of my close friends in class today. This girl who I knew he had taken a shine to told me that he emailed her inviting her to the cinema with his brother and nephew. To which she obviously said no. Next he suggests that in the 2nd year of uni (when we all move out) that me, her and him could share a place!?!? What the HELL. Does he want to be some sort of wrinkly pimp?? I am so angry.
I'm really glad I shared what happened with the two other people because it's just ridiculous now. I've told my tutor like I said in the other topic but havent been able to tell him where to go because he hasn't been in. I've heard a rumour that he has left the course now we've finished exams but..he can't really leave after the exams because the course isn't over. Anyway I hope he has left.
Feeling kind of sorry for myself. I go back into education after a fairly rough time of it and I'm harassed by a creep like him who decides to prey on me because of my shyness and not only that he has the cheek to try and prey on two other girls my age (20) one being very shy as well. To demonstrate how timid I am I was actually shaking when I told my friends at lunch today.
He is the sort of bloke with a short fuse. One minute he is fine and next he snaps. When I wasn't in..my friend was talking to another classmate about something and he was sat behind where they couldn't see him. He gets narked because he feels ignored or whatever. Suddenly stands up and grabs his bags noisily..Leans over my friend and says with such venom 'Fucking WANKER' and storms off. I REALLY hope he does not return.
It might seem like I am over-reacting but I've taken to double checking my backdoor is locked at night and even then I get scared if I hear noises because I sleep on the ground floor so sometimes feel vulnerable. That is me being completely honest and yeah you might think I'm overreacting but I have images of him coming into college and doing something stupid.
Anywho opened upto some of my close friends in class today. This girl who I knew he had taken a shine to told me that he emailed her inviting her to the cinema with his brother and nephew. To which she obviously said no. Next he suggests that in the 2nd year of uni (when we all move out) that me, her and him could share a place!?!? What the HELL. Does he want to be some sort of wrinkly pimp?? I am so angry.
I'm really glad I shared what happened with the two other people because it's just ridiculous now. I've told my tutor like I said in the other topic but havent been able to tell him where to go because he hasn't been in. I've heard a rumour that he has left the course now we've finished exams but..he can't really leave after the exams because the course isn't over. Anyway I hope he has left.
Feeling kind of sorry for myself. I go back into education after a fairly rough time of it and I'm harassed by a creep like him who decides to prey on me because of my shyness and not only that he has the cheek to try and prey on two other girls my age (20) one being very shy as well. To demonstrate how timid I am I was actually shaking when I told my friends at lunch today.
He is the sort of bloke with a short fuse. One minute he is fine and next he snaps. When I wasn't in..my friend was talking to another classmate about something and he was sat behind where they couldn't see him. He gets narked because he feels ignored or whatever. Suddenly stands up and grabs his bags noisily..Leans over my friend and says with such venom 'Fucking WANKER' and storms off. I REALLY hope he does not return.
It might seem like I am over-reacting but I've taken to double checking my backdoor is locked at night and even then I get scared if I hear noises because I sleep on the ground floor so sometimes feel vulnerable. That is me being completely honest and yeah you might think I'm overreacting but I have images of him coming into college and doing something stupid.
0
Comments
yeah I don't know that though. I reckon my tutor is going to say that he cant leave because there is still work to do.
by the way, its not an overreaction to check your doors locked, hes already touched in the head so you never know where it could lead.
That's creepy as hell, and the whole "living together" thing. For all you know he's a dog that barks and doesn't bite, but can't ever be sure...
Yorghos that is exactly it. I was sitting in English today and kept expecting him to burst in.
What? Girls can wank too and lots of them do.
Hope your alright anyway flower :thumb:
well OK, I see what you mean.
Nah, I consider wanking a male thing. Boys wank, girls maturbate.
Thanks
Yeah discussing whether wanking is applicable to women somewhere else
I haven't had the chance to yet.
What are you going to do now?
During my English Lit exam he was sat in front of me and he tried to make ordinary conversation with me at the start asking questions like 'How long is the exam?' and I just answered him in a deadpan voice 'I dont know' and then before we begin he turns around and says all goofy 'Dont copy me ho ho ho'. I had visions of stabbing him in the back with a biro. If I fail it's because of that and nothing to do with the fact that I d idn't revise.