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dealing with a break up
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my ex-other half reads this but i think it's alight to ask, just basically how have you dealt with a break up?
me. since last monday i've been wondering how to think of things, i'd like to know her still, she's a lovely person even if i can't trust her anymore but i would like to be her friend again, definetly because he was the love of my life until last weekend
at the moment im just trying to get on with things and whore myself even if that doesnt work for me mentally
what does me in is trying to work out what to think and stuff, i love her still, i miss her, but i can never trust her around anyone again even if i eventually forgive her argghhhhhhhhhhhhhh it's so annoying
me. since last monday i've been wondering how to think of things, i'd like to know her still, she's a lovely person even if i can't trust her anymore but i would like to be her friend again, definetly because he was the love of my life until last weekend
at the moment im just trying to get on with things and whore myself even if that doesnt work for me mentally
what does me in is trying to work out what to think and stuff, i love her still, i miss her, but i can never trust her around anyone again even if i eventually forgive her argghhhhhhhhhhhhhh it's so annoying
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If you want to be friends with her but are finding the break up hard, then you might want to cut contact for a while until you have both started moving on.
That might be good idea. Give each other some space and then in a few months or however long it takes, and then start to rebuild a friendship if you both want it.
You wont know what to think/do a while, just work through the emotions in your own way and you'll sort everything out eventually. It can take a long time for the emotional scars to heal but they eventually.