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Seeing the ex again
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I was just at a friends party when my ex showed up!:eek:
After we split up we agreed to be friends but i couldnt handle that and stopped talking to her, and havent seen her in 2 months.
As soon as i saw her my heart rate went sky high and headed straight for the exit (ahh good ol faithful car, gets me outta any mess)
I thought i was over her but seeing her then brought it all back. Now my head is racing and i know im not gonna get any sleep tonight :banghead:. If i had stayed there i think i woulda had a heart attack or passed out.
So do you think that was a good thing leaving straight away?
After we split up we agreed to be friends but i couldnt handle that and stopped talking to her, and havent seen her in 2 months.
As soon as i saw her my heart rate went sky high and headed straight for the exit (ahh good ol faithful car, gets me outta any mess)
I thought i was over her but seeing her then brought it all back. Now my head is racing and i know im not gonna get any sleep tonight :banghead:. If i had stayed there i think i woulda had a heart attack or passed out.
So do you think that was a good thing leaving straight away?
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it's f***ing harsh but you either work through it and hope it all gets better eventually or avoid her like the plague. good luck. i'd go for the clean break and take the second option if i were you.
Mr_Wobble
i know the feelin, i went through this with my last ex, and i think u did the right thing by leaving. by the sounds of it, you wud have probably ended up saying or doing sumthing "bad" as it were.
the whole "unresolved" issue, is a good point, but i think if ur feeling that way after this long of not talkin or seein her, then no amount of talkin wud make much difference aside from giving u a reason to be around her
Exactly,Mr Wobble got it in one ( same bit of advice you gave me on that decision thread and btw everythings going Fantastic with my New Girl ( I went with new girl not the Ex ) thanks wobbles :P)
Ex's are Ex's or a Reason, Don't go back
Jez
I think the thing here is to look forwards, not backwards (to ex'es), Amnesiac.
Mr_Wobble