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Bollocks.
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For frick sake!!!
After a year of being fucking single, I meet a lush guy on the internet. We have sooo much in common, and he's funny and makes me laugh.
But we live at completely the other ends of the country.
And he's 22...
FUCK!!!!! Why's life so annoying????
Ilora x
After a year of being fucking single, I meet a lush guy on the internet. We have sooo much in common, and he's funny and makes me laugh.
But we live at completely the other ends of the country.
And he's 22...
FUCK!!!!! Why's life so annoying????
Ilora x
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I've got to admit, it's funny in a way (that you're at the opposite ends of the country).
I used to chat with a girl in the US. We got on like a house on fire, but it was obvious that nothing was going to come of it. Fantastic person though. She's married with kids now, and we still occasionally chat/email.
Mr_Wobble
still, it wouldn't have worked, nice idea though
In real life you might meet someone and they seem nice but on closer insepction they aint all that good. Oh well.
But, what can you do?
:yes: although some people make up shit about who they are cos they find that no one can prove that what theyre saying is wrong, or untrue...but msot people are who they say they are, and that they show there true selves as they feel they dont have to hide behind an image...
The reason I took a job in London after graduating was to be near him but we ended up splitting up before it happened. That was just the natural course of things though, I'd changed a LOT in 3 years and basically grown out of the relationship.
I wouldn't change anything if I could go back though, it was definately a very nice first love to have.
I think if you really really want a relationship a far better thing to do for these reasons is to find a proper dating agency. There may be some weirdos so you still have to be careful but there should be far fewer timewasters or people having a go at it just for fun. But I am not telling anyone what to do. It's entirely up to the individual.