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am i in the wrong?
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Hia, just want your opppinions on this please,
my best mate used to go out with this lad, but they have split up numerous times now, she fucked him about, she stil wants him (wont admit it nemore but does!) but on the otherhand he hates her! and doesnt ever want her bk!
recently me and him have been talking and txtin, i am startin to basically fancy the arse off him!!
am i in the wrong? is it bad to feel like this cuz of my best mate!? ah confuzzled!
edidted cuz i wrote him instead of her sumwhere!
my best mate used to go out with this lad, but they have split up numerous times now, she fucked him about, she stil wants him (wont admit it nemore but does!) but on the otherhand he hates her! and doesnt ever want her bk!
recently me and him have been talking and txtin, i am startin to basically fancy the arse off him!!
am i in the wrong? is it bad to feel like this cuz of my best mate!? ah confuzzled!
edidted cuz i wrote him instead of her sumwhere!
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If you are really good mates then making a move on him may be risky to your friendship...
But I would not do it if they are still an item or if they kinda just broke up last night or sommat like that.
Go for it.:)
*Just a few sensible suggestion tho*
weigh up the pros and cons of it all first.
Ask yourself why your friend kept on fucking this lad around, is he sort of boring? Or was your friend just a bitch? Are you going to make the same mistake and treat this boy the same?
Remember the bad bits you've heard about him from your friend (Don't necessarily believe them), but if it recurs with you. (You might be able to stop it hurting you)
Also, do you think that it'll be a short lived relationship, Worth hurting your friend over?
Yeh so did I
:yes: i do, but im in a very confusing situation atm my feelings are everywhere not sure weva want my bf nemore but neway!
*hugs* hun do what makes you happy
EDITED to add that you are in the wrong when it comes to your boyfriend. I suggest you break it off with him until you sort your feelings out. That's what i'm doing at the moment *sigh*
then yeah, you are in the wrong.
leave your boyfriend if you want to chat up all the other boys in town.
And lose your friendship? Making yourself happy can have a cost.
You need to think about this or YOU may land up f*cking this new guy around TOO!
In the meantime, dump your present boyfriend anyway. You don't love him so let him get on with his life.
Good luck!