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Losing All Hope
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I'm just so bored with the people I call my mates. There's no one I particularly relate to, no one I'd particularly miss if they suddenly disappeare. No one I can really trust.
I want friends who are actually loyal, trustworthy and genuine. I'm sick of being the one that gets shat on every time. Why can't people be more REAL and genuine, not fakes?
I can't wait to meet some real people with real educated beliefs, with real feelings and real ambitions.
I want to be appreciated... not trodden on.
Ilora x
I want friends who are actually loyal, trustworthy and genuine. I'm sick of being the one that gets shat on every time. Why can't people be more REAL and genuine, not fakes?
I can't wait to meet some real people with real educated beliefs, with real feelings and real ambitions.
I want to be appreciated... not trodden on.
Ilora x
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then i think about how they're really great and are nice people and i cheer up
In time you'll find that you grow appart from some of them, and start to make new friends. You might make new friends through college, Uni, or work. You might befriend those friends friends, and so on, and before you know it, you have new friends. Hopefully they'll be more mature. Hopefully some of them will become true friends - genuine friends you can trust.
It takes time though.
Mr_Wobble
I do hope you're right
Ilora x
Mr_Wobble
i understand completely sweetie but as Mr_Wobble said you will find people that you can relate to, but it wont happen overnight. these things take time im afraid. but you have loads of different friend making opportunities to come so you will find people who are on your wavelength
But now I've been at uni only 3 weeks and am already making lots of new friends who have the same values, interests and general mindset as me - a fresh start was really all that was needed, I think!
And I've almost lost contact with some of my friends already, but others I'm in touch with all the time and we're gettingon much better because we've all spent time apart.
Cheer up, it will get better I promise!